What are signs you can’t get a girlfriend due to poor social skills?

[Anonymous]

I often feel extremely bad about myself and I bounce back and forth between my appearance and social skills and I can never determine if it’s my social skills or appearance that holds me back

[Anonymous]

looks >>>>>>>>>>> personality and social skills

you'll know if they approach you first because it indicates they're attracted to you and you screwed up with your poor social skills

if you approach them first, you'll never know because they may not be attracted to you in the first place and it's a losing battle to try to win them over

[Asker]

But can’t your poor social skills cause you to appear not friendly which would lead to them not approaching as well

[Opinion Owner]

not if you understand how the Halo Effect works

people already have preconceived notions about you based on your looks whether fair or not

your personality is then judged according to your looks

[Unit1]

You'll never know 😏

[IHateBeingaMan]

another reminder oh well