Guys, does the pose he picks for a photo mean anything in terms of liking you?

[Anonymous]

Like for example, if he asks for a photo with you and wraps his arm around you, pulls you close, and leans in (kind of like a close side hug that would make people question if you’re together) or something like that.

[DtMe89]

If you are comfortable with him, taking photos, especially being that close to him, I should think you like him

[Asker]

But does the pose mean he likes me?

[DtMe89]

I mean, should it really matter at this point. You're letting him get close to you

[Asker]

It matters to me.

[DtMe89]

But it shouldn't

[Asker]

But it does. Answer the question please.

[DtMe89]

But it shouldn't! That's my point. Why do you care

[Asker]

Because I like him. I don’t care that you think I shouldn’t, that wasn’t the question.

[DtMe89]

Then that's all that matters, is that you DO like him. If you like him, ask him out, or get him to ask you out, it doesn't matter if he likes you or not, you just gotta take a chance

[Asker]

Great, so I’m exactly in the same position I was when I first asked the question.

[Asker]

With the upmost respect and with the lack of better wording, why respond to a question if you’re not going to respond to it with an actual answer?

[DtMe89]

Because I'm literally telling you what you need to do. You already know the answer to this, you just refuse to accept it

[Asker]

But I didn’t ask for your opinion on what I should do. If I wanted it, I would’ve asked for it but I didn’t. Also, you don’t know the nuances surrounding the situation so you actually don’t understand the situation despite you thinking you do. You’re not helping anyone by telling me what you think I should do when I didn’t ask and acting like you know best. If I wanted to know what to do, I would’ve asked but I didn’t.

[DtMe89]

You asked what we think

I told you what I think

GET THE FUCK OVER IT

[Asker]

No, re-read the question and your response. You told me what you think I should do when I asked what you think that meant.

[DtMe89]

I told you what I think, you asked for our opinions. thats what i gave you. I'm literally telling you, it shouldn't matter if he likes you or not. YOU ALREADY DO. TAKE A RISK

[Asker]

Asking someone what they think you should do and asking someone what they think about what something means are two very different questions.

[DtMe89]

No, it's not.

I'm telling you what I think. I THINK you need to ask him out

[Asker]

It actually is. I’m not asking you what you think I should do or if you think I should just go for it, I’m asking what it means when a guy does this. Two very different questions. If I wanted to know what you thought I should do, I would’ve explained the situation with more detail and context (believe me, it matters in this case), but I didn’t.

[DtMe89]

You're asking what you think

I told you what I think

I THINK YOU SHOULD ASK HIM OUT