What does it mean when your friends with benefits holds your hand while falling asleep?

[Anonymous]

I haven’t asked him yet but I’m wondering if it’s worth bringing up to him or if its a complete misunderstanding. Is it a sign that he’s starting to get emotionally attached or is it more likely that he’s just very affectionate and getting comfortable?

[236color]

So he just had sex with you, and he held your hand? On my first date with my wife, ( on which we did NOT have sex) I held her hand, in public, as we entered the theater. My point is, this is a pretty minor bit of intimacy. You'd just had sex with him, he had an orgasm and his body was flooded with feel good hormones, and the best he could do is hold your hand? Not even a kiss on the forehead? So what does this mean? I'd say it means he likes you and enjoyed having sex with you, but I doubt it's much more than that. What are you looking for here? Do you want a relationship upgrade, or do you want to bail if he's getting the feels?

[spartan55]

If he wanted to be in a relationship with you then he would. (repeat 100 times)

[SueShe]

It is probably the beginning of the end of your friend with benefits story.

It simply means that he has started developing feeling and that you have to make up your mind now whether you should sever this relationship of convenience.

Continuing it will mean stepping into something you did not want in the first place and any day you stay longer in that kind of relationship will become more and more difficult to escape from.

Time to make that decision now.

[jahaims]

It means you are both too immature for a healthy relationship so you cope with a pseudo relationship so you can get positive feelings without commitment

[StevenMcGarrett]

It could be but if you are wanting someone to commit to you then find him now otherwise you are wasting your time.

[boggboss]

I wouldn't say it means anything in the moment

[In_Trance]

Nothing