This is a question for the guys. How can you spot a feminist woman and what do you do when you meet one?

[sage2021]

I would really hate to be a guy and meet a woman who I would like to get to know only to find out she's a feminist and worse yet, a weaponized feminist.
So, the two of you are alone, getting to know each other and BAM! You find out she's a feminist. How do you get away from her? And fast!!

[ManOnFire]

Sometimes you can tell by their demeanor with you and tone of voice when they're speaking to you as a man, but especially by the way they respond to something you say if it's related to politics, relationships, and real every day stuff with the genders. That will tell you everything about them. They will either try to debate you or go silent as a way of cutting you off.

When that happens I don't have to get away from her, she already did it for me.

[sage2021]

@ManOnFire
After I posted the question, I thought that maybe they don't try to get to know each other because why would they? She's a man hater and probably won't even try to form a relationship with a man.
But then I read something that came back to me. There are men who are married to a feminist. 🤔

[ManOnFire]

Many women are waiting and hoping to meet a man who doesn't think like them just to have a reason to reject him or cut him off. This is more pleasing for their ego or twisted sense of self-worth than actually having a man for a serious connection. This is part of the wickedness of today's women.

I think the men married to feminists are guys who feel like they should or they like the "independent woman" thing but these same men are often the ones you will hear about who cheat on their feminist wives with more real-world type women.

[sage2021]

@MamOnFire
WOW! These women have really twisted minds!🤪
To deliberately get a man only to reject him before you even know him is really sick!! That's not just playing games like some people do, this is psycho pathological thinking!🧐
I can't even wrap my head around WHY they would do this and do it on purpose! 🤔
Man, if I were a guy and I was aware that there are some women out there that do this to unsuspecting men, and you don't know until it's too late, I would just rather be by myself than to experience any relationship with a woman at all.
I know that you don't want to be alone, and I get it!! But if most women have been on these social media sites, they have already been programmed to believe that their thoughts about men aren't misconstrued and they know how to get a man according to what they've learned from other women, then I really would find something else meaningful to do with my life.
It could be something as meaningful to volunteer for much needy causes, or something that you are passionate about and learn about it.
I've been single and alone most of my life in case you didn't know that. So, I am not just shooting from my hip.

[sage2021]

@ManOnFire
GaG has shortened our replies and opinions so I had to continue this here.
I think about you every now and then because I know a couple of guys on this website that are like you and can't find love so they can't have their own little family. 😔 It just seems so against nature and what God's plan is for each of us if they do desire.
I think we need to start all over with a new Adam and Eve and keep Eve away from cellphone's! Hehehe 🤗

[ManOnFire]

@sage2021 It really is true though. A lot of today's women are literally looking for reasons to be turned off by men. They simply want to show that they can reject them, and they get off on that. You have to understand that many women of today are only craving attention and power over men. That's all they care about. That and casual sex with men who don’t love them.

"I think about you every now and then because I know a couple of guys on this website that are like you and can't find love"
- Surprised to know you think about me. I don't talk about my personal life on GaG very often, but let's just say love might be in my real life😉

[FunkyMonkee]

First give away: strangely coloured hair or a male haircut or no hair at all.
2nd: nose rings, tattoos, bizarre piercings, gauged ear lobes, horn-rimmed glasses, bizarre make-up, men's clothing.

[FunkyMonkee]

Best way to get out of a situation like that, tell you have to go, you just remembered that your mom's on fire!! Or, you just remembered that you forgot to shut the gas off at home.
"Oh my!! Is THAT the time? I'm gonna be late for my bridge club!! We're building one across the Potomac this time! BYE!"

[sage2021]

@FunkyMonkee

Run Forrest Run!

[beefcakebradybatson]

Fugly and/or no boobs !!!

[FunkyMonkee]

@beefcakebradybatson Oh, I've seen some with a really nice set of tits!! Saw one last night who looks like Velma (Scooby Doo) with red hair and HUGE sweater meat!

[Anonymous]

It depends on the feminist. Some make it obvious with the way they dress, dye their hair, piece their bodies, which I appreciate. Others are not as overt about it, and you have to spend some time getting to know them before it becomes apparent. But eventually it doe become obvious in their attitudes toward men, relationships, family and politics.

What do I do when I meet feminist, or realize a woman I know is one? I treat her like anyone else, except I don't allow her to be part of my life in any meaningful way.

What do I do when I discover a woman I'm dating has feminist views? I find a reason to end the relationship. I have no place in my life for a feminist.

This is why I'm so grateful for the 4B movement. I am very appreciative of feminists who remove themselves from the dating pool so good men don't have to spend time and energy on such women, or end up in a relationship with them before they discover who the woman really is. 4B a beautiful thing and I support it 100%.

[ClassicDropout]

I can tell by how she approaches sexual topics tbh. If she's prudish and weirdly aggressive when the topic comes up, I just know she's a weirdo. Nothing wrong with not wanting sex or not wanting to talk about it, but a simple "I'm not interested" or "let's talk about something else" is enough. I dont need a lecture about objectification every time I'm trying to have sex.

[Makeushiver]

I want her to have a degree of feminism. Like not putting up with shit from men, unfair pay opr working conditions. I'm fine with The Zipless Fuck. But if it's the axis around which everything revolves. I don't think it would be very pleasant. Not as unpleasant as being a Trump lover but unpleasant

[BeetleBro2000]

I can usually spot a feminist when she wears something, says, or does something that seems feminist. I don't usually do anything special when I meet one though. Most of my friends are feminists already.

[Pete671]

Bring up the topic of how women don't want equality, and make sexist comments until she goes off on one then just walk away,,,

[Dongie]

Never could get that far. I can detect that crap in a few sentences. I learned that in the 70s as a kid.

[beefcakebradybatson]

Feminist broads are usually ugly and anti-man, ESPECIALLY anti-black man.( But then, even black women scorn us ).

[Ironco]

Tell her to fuck off, but in a way she will understand.

[sage2021]

@Ironco

I think what you said she will not only understand it but my guess is she speaks French like you do! 🙂

[Ironco]

Pardon my French then

[sage2021]

@Ironco
No, I meant you should say it to her just the way you said it on here!
She'll deserve it! 😄

[Anonymous]

Rudeness is an obvious giveaway

[Lynx122]

They usually tell you pretty quickly. XD