How to get a guy to like you/get his attention?

[Anonymous]

Guys, what can girls do to get your attention? and what will make u fall for a girl even if you may not have been attracted to her from the day u met?

Also, if u like a girl enough, but u live quite far away, would you make an effort to be with her?

[jahaims]

If he doesn't like you for you what would be the point? So be yourself.

[Asker]

That's fair

[Danny_dan92]

By graduating high school

[Asker]

i'm talking about a guy who hasn't graduated either

[Danny_dan92]

Doesn’t matter kid. Graduate high school before worrying about relationships

[Asker]

ok😁 but i really like him, like really really do

[Danny_dan92]

🤦🏻‍♂️ this is what leads to teenagers having kids. Dropping out. Then need to live off of food stamps just to survive.

[Asker]

trust me, that ain't happening, and no that only happens to kids who are irresponsible, i want a career not kids

[Danny_dan92]

Just some food for thought.

Most of high school relationships end in a train wreck. Because as a teenager, you legit don’t know shit about life.

I sound like an asshole but I’m just being honest. End of the day, it’s your life. You can either listen to advice from older people that made similar mistakes or make those mistakes yourself and learn the hard way.

Up to you

[Asker]

ok, i'll listen, thanks for the advice🙂

[Danny_dan92]

If you don’t believe me, ask your parents what they think.

[Asker]

no, i believe you, my Dad has his first proper girlfriend in yr 11 they lasted 3 years dunno what happened. Mum only ever had 2 boyfriends, 1 is my Dad and they got married. So my situation is completely different to theirs, thats why i'm trying to nut things out

[Danny_dan92]

My recommendation is to start dating after you have started working a job (part time Or full time)

And or are going to college full time for a few years. That’s when you learn a lot about adulthood. Which is crucial in dating and relationships.

In the end, that first relationship will probably not last honestly. My first relationship I got into it at 21. That ended in a train wreck. However I learned many things from it. Things to look for and things I personally did wrong.

[Asker]

i live in Australia so college/university isn't as big as what it is in the States but yeah ok. Thank you🙏

[Danny_dan92]

Yep. Good luck

[Regal58]

What have you tried so far?

[Asker]

nothing really other than talking to him, thats why i'm asking

[Regal58]

Add him on all social media, send him random snapchats

[Asker]

don't have social media, i mean like in person what should i do?

[Regal58]

Dress cute, talk to him all the time, hug him when you can