Why are guys so attracted to me when im having hard time?

[Anonymous]

everytime im like depressed and emotionally vulnerable state and open about it i seem to attract so many guys and even guy friends suddenly say they rlly think im sweet and im their type and would wanna date but i dont understand why? its kinda strange tbh

[Anonymous]

It’s probably because they as most men try to solve women’s issues, their problems. I used to date women like that. It took me a long time to realize that these women for me were a problem. I’m not saying you’re a problem, but I realized that these women would use me. Sure we’d date, be intimate, but eventually they’d cheat w someone else. It took me a long time to realize that I can’t doze these women’s issues. Men in general can’t fix women’s issues. Whether she’s upset w herself cause she dropped out of college, ruined her life or whatever. Men need to realize they can’t fix that. For a majority of men it’s in our nature to try to fix things. So that may be the reason why they gravitate toward you. They see a girl who is in need of help, who they think they can help. Make her life better, but they can’t.

[jimmy14532]

I don't know tbh