Why are men such creeps when they stare at boobs for so long?

[Anonymous]

Recently, my friend and I noticed that men stare at me a lot. I’m not even good-looking, and I try to dress modestly. Never showing cleavage, I wear a hat, oversized shirts—yet my boobs are still noticeable.

It’s getting weirder, though. For example, at the place where I usually eat, some creeps will just stand close by and blatantly stare at my chest, even when I give them a sharp look like, “Hello, stop it!” Others will walk by repeatedly, obviously sneaking glances. They don’t even feel ashamed. It’s like they think it’s completely normal behavior.

Sometimes I look at them like, “No thanks,” but they don’t get it. Once, one guy got nervous when trying to help me and then just started staring at my chest.

It’s as if they’ve never seen boobs before.
No matter what I do to avoid drawing attention to my appearance, I still get noticed.

Aren’t they afraid of coming across as creeps?

[FunnyButNotFunnyHaHa]

Do any of the guys ever try to actually TALK to you? Do they like ask for your phone number, or even make small talk with you? Or is it literally just staring?

Do you get the same kind of stares when you're out with your boyfriend or husband or whatever?

[Asker]

They only stare at me 😶 sometimes I get a 'hi' or they wave.

[FunnyButNotFunnyHaHa]

Are they really THAT big?

[FunnyButNotFunnyHaHa]

You kinda make it sound like every time you go out in public guys are pointing and sting and taking pictures.

[FunnyButNotFunnyHaHa]

Has it been like this for you ever since you were in high school?

[Asker]

Yeah they are big. No matter what I wear you notice them. I do everything to hide it tho. I don't ever show cleavage

Well they stare a lot whenever I go out. It's not fun.

It has always been like this but lately it seems more frequent.
I don't understand why. I even wear a hat.

[FunnyButNotFunnyHaHa]

Well, I mean, wearing a hat wouldn't hide your boobs.

Are there any advantages to having a large chest? Are you ever glad to be so "endowed"?

[Asker]

I wear loose shirts. What I meant is that I don’t make any effort to look attractive, so wearing a har is meant to show that I’m not trying.

No, because it doesn’t achieve anything. It’s not nice when creepy guys stare. I’m not some kind of museum piece.

I don't stare at them. So they need to understand that it is rude, weird and disgusting

[FunnyButNotFunnyHaHa]

What do you do for work? Or are you still in school? Is interacting with guys for your job/school awkward? Or can guys control themselves then?

You can message me if you feel like it. This thread is getting kinda long. You don;t have to if you'd rather not. Just a thought.

[Asker]

I'd prefer to leave it at that. But thank you.

[FunnyButNotFunnyHaHa]

I mean, have you ever interacted with a guy where he wasn't staring at your chest?

[Asker]

No not really. They are too noticeable. So that's the first thing they see

[FunnyButNotFunnyHaHa]

So basically, as soon as any guy sees you, he immediately wants to have sex with you.

That's gotta get old. You must hate men.

[Asker]

Well thanks for that information that it is about sex.

Yeah it does! It's not fun to date either

[FunnyButNotFunnyHaHa]

Well, yeah, big breasts are a turn-on for most guys.

Why did you think guys were string so hard?

Have you ever had a boyfriend? Do you even WANT a boyfriend? Just curious.

[Asker]

I don't understand why guys put so much effort into it. It’s not like staring at it will get them what they want from me.

[FunnyButNotFunnyHaHa]

Do you ever have positive interactions with guys? Or is it always bad?

[Asker]

Through text there were a few till, they saw more of me through a selfie or whatsoever.

[FunnyButNotFunnyHaHa]

I mean... are they THAT large? Like shockingly large? It's fine if you don't want to tell me your size, but can you give me some idea?

If I saw you, would my jaw drop?

[Asker]

I don't know you so I don't know what will make your jaw drop.

Bigger than D and no you're not even close. They're not saggy

[FunnyButNotFunnyHaHa]

Sooo... like an F-cup? I'll guess 36F, if I'm allowed to guess.

Are you 25? Older? Younger?

[Asker]

I already said enough. You can guess all you want.

I won't tell my actual age

[FunnyButNotFunnyHaHa]

Well... you can see my age. You're probably older than me. I'm just wondering how much older.

Am I upsetting you?

[Asker]

I'm younger than you think. You ask too much, not everyone likes that

[FunnyButNotFunnyHaHa]

Okay sorry. You just make me curious.

I'm 16 if you were wondering.

[FunnyButNotFunnyHaHa]

Tou can tell me whatever you feel like telling me about yourself.

I'd like to know.

[FunnyButNotFunnyHaHa]

Hope you had a good New Years.

[FunnyButNotFunnyHaHa]

How was your New Years?

Were guys staring at you all night?

[Anonymous]

I'm not brave enough to stare, but a lot of men don't care anymore cause women say everything is creepy and will automatically be bothered by our presence if she doesn't find us attractive. So, why not stare? What difference does it make to men when they are assumed a creep/just trying to fuck from the jump? Might as well look if we like what we see.

[Asker]

It's just that I don't stare at someone bc I don't like it if it happens to me. So I won't make someone else uncomfortable by staring. That's just creepy

[Sirenboobzilla]

I came to terms with that a long time ago. Until they're chopped off, the stares will always be there. Sucky part of life.

[Nikki1989]

The bigger the breasts, the more you attract perverts. I stopped caring many years ago.

[Anonymous]

That's only your own opinion. Look at them from their point of view!

[Asker]

What do you mean?

[Opinion Owner]

We don't know why but, we're wired to love looking at tits and, as you've all got `em, we wanna see `em and, to us, we're not trying to be creepy about it but, that's the way you seem to view it. We just think they're very beautiful and are admiring them because of that. Those of us that are civil about it, anyway. We're fascinated by how they move around when you move. I'm PRETTY SURE that if WE had tits, too, we'd sit around and stare at them most of the day, too.

[Asker]

You are so cute. Thank you for taking the time to answer. Now I understand it better.

[Opinion Owner]

You're quite welcome.

[Anonymous]

Most men are ignorant to the reaction they cause found their behavior.

[Anonymous]

creepy my ass... most women show off their freaking boobs and ass in public yet call us men creeps for staring at them it is our nature, don't like it, cover the fuckers up

[Asker]

I already cover myself up. So there's nothing to see but clothes. My neck is only visible to see