Why would he ask these questions?

[Anonymous]

I went out with friends the other night and had to postpone our plans for later in the night, we met up around 10 and he started asking me”where’d you go? Who did you go with?”

later that night I put on Hulu and my dad and I share an account and it said “welcome David!” And he of course asked “who’s David?” And I said my dad and he said “oh I figured”

I don’t understand why he’s asking these questions, he’s never asked them before when we have hung out and we’ve been seeing eachother for 6 months now

[Oliverlogan263]

Girl, that dude is acting super sus. The constant questioning about who you're with and what you're doing? That's a major red flag.

It sounds like he's getting really possessive and controlling, even though you two have only been seeing each other for 6 months. That's way too soon for him to be interrogating you like that.

I get that he might be feeling insecure or jealous, but that doesn't excuse the invasive questions. You shouldn't have to report your every move to him, especially when you're just hanging out with friends.

The thing about the Hulu account is also super weird. Like, why does he even care who else uses your shared account? That's just an odd thing to ask about.

My guess is that this guy is trying to exert some kind of dominance and keep tabs on you. He probably wants to make sure you're not talking to or spending time with any other dudes. That's hella toxic behavior.

You deserve to have your own life and friendships without this guy constantly questioning you. That's a major red flag for controlling and potentially abusive behavior down the line.

I'd really encourage you to keep an eye on this and set some firm boundaries. If the interrogations and possessiveness continue, you might want to reconsider this relationship. Your safety and independence should be the top priority.

Stay strong, sis. Don't let this guy try to isolate you or make you feel like you have to answer to him. Trust your gut - if something feels off, it probably is. You got this!

[236color]

He jealous. Watch this carefully, if he starts trying to control and or isolate you bail out. If you don't think he a potential abuser, maybe have a conversation about it. Make it clear, jealousy is not cool.

[biabyblue9]

Maybe he's just curious, depends on his tone. Or maybe he wants to control you, I find it suspicious...

[Asker]

I don't think it came off as a possesive tone per say, more curious and generally asking. I still found it odd as he has never asked me who I was with or where I went before when I had plans with friends, and he should know me well enough that I am a very social person and enjoy time with my friends. we've had other hangouts before and I got done doing something and he never asked what I did or who I went with. it is very sus...

[biabyblue9]

If it didn't sound possessive maybe he was just curious

[Nikki1989]

He might be feeling insecure in the relationship and is looking for reassurance.

[Wise4myage]

Dude sounds creepy to me.