Why would he ask me questions like this?

[sd1223]

So he claims he doesn’t love or have any feelings for me right? But the last time we met up he asked me the following: Do I feel like a grown woman or little girl with him? Would I love him if he lost his attractiveness? What other things than love do I feel toward him and what does he make me feel? The next time we meet up I’m going to ask him what made him those kind of thing or what’s on his mind. But I wanted to get some opinions on what everyone thinks he could be feeling, talk about mixed signals 😅.

[Guy13]

He sounds like he has some fears about losing you. This is also common in the relationship process. "What would it take for her to stop dating me" kind of things.

[sd1223]

Why is he afraid of losing me? He said he doesn’t want to date me it’s purely a friends with benefits and he knows I’m not going anywhere. I love the man too much. Plus he said he doesn’t have any feelings.

I’m just wondering why he asked and we aren’t together and he said he doesn’t have feelings.

[sd1223]

Why would he want to know all that thought? Does he secretly love me and just doesn’t want to admit it or something?

[Guy13]

Something like that. Somewhere along that continuum.

[sd1223]

Interesting I’ve always had that feeling. But he made a point where he said i aggravate him just like everyone else but he still sticks around, and I said because you like me more than you say you do and he was like “idk about all that” what other reason could it be?

[Guy13]

No long-term here. He floats in s as bad out

[sd1223]

Yeah I suppose not but thank for your reply anyway

[Guy13]

Alright. Have a good evening.

[sd1223]

Thank you, you do the same