Why does he put his hand on my lower back?

[Anonymous]

this guy i have been seeing has this funny habit of putting his hand very low on my back when we are just walking in public. I don't know if this is romantic, lustful or possessive because it makes me uncomfortable how low the hand placement is (right above my butt) any thoughts or am i being weird? this is only our second date and i want to take it slow.

[NicholasRedone]

Lol he's a player lol typical man, trying to get his hands as close to - things. Consensually you'd hope. Anyways. Always tell him straight up as a confident adult woman if you want him to put his hands where you can see them aka a respectable human

[MrOracle]

It's a sign of closeness, possession, and protection. It's designed to provide comfort to you (the woman) and to send a message to other men that she is his and under his protection and that other men should leave her alone.

[Nikki1989]

Insecurity, probably. He might be seeking reassurance or trying to assert his presence subtly.

[Pterodon]

Why don’t you ask him