Why will some guys get you pregnant but won't commit to you?

[Anonymous]

[BluegrassBill]

Well, darlin', down here in the South, we've got our own way of livin', but when it comes to love and commitment, sometimes a man is like a farmer, out there sewing his seeds to see which shoots a-comin' up the strongest. Some girls, well, you do 'em while your on that moonshine binge, and later you realize, aw shucks, she's probly going to give birth to a cross-eyed sissy with no care for huntin and fishin -- sperm gone wrong if you will, one of the weaklings got up in her cooter -- not the kind of kid you're going to one go pal around with on a Saturday. I reckoned on so, that I decided to whip up this here ditty in the key of A minor kind of a moody song about cross-eyed offsprings:

Imagine a child with cross-eyed gaze, no taste for the wild,
A sissy, they might say, not fit for huntin' or the kill.
But in my heart, I long for a son, strong and true,
To fish with me on Saturday, just like I used to do.

Days spent by the river, teachin' him the ways of the land,
Teaching him to track, to shoot, to be a Southern man.
I dream of a boy with calloused hands, a spirit free,
One who'll carry on traditions, like his pappy used to be.

But when the dawn breaks, and the moonshine's worn thin,
I'm left with the truth, the consequences of my sin.
A man's gotta face his fears, own up to his mistakes,
And leave to God's hands them cross-eyed sissies he creates.

[Darklydarkened]

Because you being pregnant is a side effect they don't have in mind whilst commiting the act of getting you pregnant

It shouldn't be too hard to grasp

[Nikki1989]

Many men are not emotionally mature enough to handle the complexities of a committed relationship and the responsibilities of parenthood.

This website should be solid proof of that.

[Darklydarkened]

Many women are not emotionally mature enough to handle the fact that a lot of men, don't really care about commiting to women

This type of framing is logical to a female mind, I get

But it also misses a big detail, how men think. Why do so many women believe men should want to handle complexities of commiting to them?

Give me one good reason, why, as a person, a man should want to be with you

[Summeroflove]

The same reason women have abortions…. They want the fun as well as excitement of sleeping around but don’t want any of the consequences. Your responsibility is to your child and so is his… But you should really be careful who you’re sleeping with I will also say that some people marry the first person they knock up/get knocked up by. That’s a mistake a lot of times as well.

Focus on your child and he should focus on his child as well. If he doesn’t take his ass to court and get child support. Maybe try to work out 50/50 custody because doing it on your own can be exhausting.

[Anonymous]

Why don’t women get commitment first before letting him blow a load in her? Like marriage. Men love sex. Maybe it was a mistake. Ultimately women decide who has sex and who doesn’t. Maybe they should get commitment first.

[In_Trance]

Because you're not worth more than a fuck in their eyes

[JonCobretti]

Because he has to go buy milk...

[jahaims]

They want sex without responsibility obviously

[BarryLiverstone]

Because they like sex