Most guys I know do actually want relationships. They honestly go out into the world seeking a partner. The problem is they rarely know what it is that they want. So they often meet girls and realize that she's not really the person he'd want as a partner. He'll never tell her that though because He can't predict the future. He doesn't know if three years from now he'll discover he's entirely wrong about you and that you're perfect for him. He doesn't know if five months from now his face will get ripped off by a monkey. So he's to afraid to let go but equally afraid to commit. The younger he is the more opportunities he has in the future. The more attractive he is the more opportunities he believes will come his way. Because every second, dollar, and calorie spent on you is one that can't be spent on another and if he's not 100% sure you're who he should be with (which is pretty much impossible) he's gonna feel reluctant. It's cruel but it's life. Men commit for three reasons 1. They're tired of looking 2. They're running out of opportunities 3. They think you're the best they'll ever find. Most girls want to believe guys are with them because of number 3 but a good majority of the time it's not. It's not romantic. It's kinda cold sounding. But it's life. So you can either live with that truth or go back to believing the romcoms. What you choose to believe is not going to change anything. If you want to have a little more of a sense of control over it all just remember people respond to incentives.
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It's probably their game to get the attention of particular girls that dare I say may be a bit needy (not saying you). They then get what they want from her and leave and it's working for them, which is why they keep doing it.
I do understand one aspect of it though as I'd sleep with many girls but if I'm committing she has to be extra special but I'd be honest about what I wanted from the start.
Because guys just want to fuck you? If you are average to hot, most guys want to fuck you but only few want more than that (which is normal). The problem is, we girls tend to pick out the most well built, successful, dominant and confident guys, instead of the ones that would actually love us. You know the rule of 20%, 80%? If you take 10 guys 10 girls in the modern dating world, 8 girls will each end up fucking the same 2 guys. That small group of guys get so much casual sex easily that they don't want to commit to keep new girls coming since that's primal male behavior. We reward that behavior actually by always falling for the same guys, and letting them use us for sex. But I admit, I've done it enough myself. And by the way, at least we get the sex which can be really nice.
I can't get my baby daddy to commit either, at one point he put a ring on it, but that didn't last long. So if you ever figure out what it takes to get a guy to commit please let me know, because I have no clue.
Some guys, once they get what they want they are ready to move on (same can be said for some women, too). It's difficult to find this guy to avoid, and which guy is genuine.
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I hate saying yhis but most of the guys who revert back in their relationships are mainly affected by external distraction or as we call it "bigger fish" once they get a bettet one they forget everything
cause you gotta understand
WE DON'T TRUST FEMALESHow did he lead u on exactly?
Let's say he commits, THEN WHAT?
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