2 reasons. Either 1. It's the type of guys you're choosing. That's not their fault it's yours. Stop choosing non committal guys. 2. You're not giving them enough reason to commit. Based on your description I'd guess it's the former rather than the latter.
You're almost 30. Take it from someone who's 50% older than you as people get older they have more and more baggage. People will read one line and think they've read the entire book before if you seem too familiar to a past ex in any way lol.
You can make a mistake at 18. At 30 or more committing to the wrong person can be very costly.
I don't want to be this way but based on 46 of living. A woman has to be consistent for a really long time for me to trust her.
Good luck!
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Well I am not sure about other guys but I am not afraid of commitment.
Maybe some guys are either players, want sex, or not serious about you :)
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A guy would commit to a girl is she is commitment material. not someone with a high body count that does hook ups. Marriage is seen as a trap these days as well.
Men have a lot more to lose when long term relationships and/or marriages don’t work out. Women initiate most break ups and divorces. They are more demanding.
Do we? Really? I usually am the one offering commitment
I'm not in the least afraid of commitment in any way shape or form.
They know that women are only loyal while it suits them. There is no benefit in relationships for men.
Consider what a man can do in his life with pure freedom... now ask yourself what can complete with that...
Define "commitment"? Forget marriage, that's for simps.
Certainly not THIS guy!
Cause no women i can see is worthy of commitment
Same reason women would be
Fear, of failureThe girls go for the 'bad boys'?
Says who? I’ve been trying for 20 plus years
freedom.
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