Do you think guys are scared of commitment?

[Anonymous]

[jshm2]

No. Don't be silly.

The "issue" is around relationships and dynamics. You get girls and guys from this past decade who are growing up around porn, social degradation, and poor life skills.

These poor bastards don't know what commitment or a good life is. They think it's an app, asset level, or something a therapist makes happen.

Give any group of these kids the right tools and they would still fuck things up. Not necessarily because they are fuckwits, or disabled. But they just have such poor upbringings from overworked parents that they learn only what movies and schools tell them they should. They have little frame of reference outside that bubble.

[Guy13]

Respect is the bottomline. Most guys have no clue how to get that. And, if they do not then 💣 goes the relationship.

It’s not the woman’s fault and she should not give it if not from her heart. Ephesians 5 for BOTH man and women is a good place to start. If respect and successful relationship is a goal.

[BlueScorpio]

Yes, a lot of people seem to be scared of commitment these days for many reasons. People need to do the inner work before getting into a relationship.

[Tina19]

I am girl but scared of commitment it's just fear of unknown that we all have regarding the future of rhe relationship

[ManOnFire]

Guys are afraid of getting divorced a year later because it turned out she was more terrified of commitment than he was.

[es20490446e]

I'm friends with many great women. What I see is that they last with their partners, and won't last too long being single.

Why? Because everything else is usually the greatest crap you will find. Many women these days are the worse greatest entitled beaches you can find, and they are anything but reliable. Highly bossy, superficial, entitled, and deceitful.

Like looking into an abyss, and the abyss looking at you back.

I want to commit, what I don't want is to feel I'm selling my soul to Satan.

My last date facial expression resembles way too much this

[ChillaxingLove]

Real women are hard to find nowadays. You got to sift through the women that want to be the man in the relationship. Then sift through the gold diggers, then you got to make sure she not for the streets (onlyfans, and other). After all that she may still reject you because your not 10 foot 12 with a 16 inch member. The sad thing is men are not hard, we are simple. But the dating game is looking murky.

[Jhunitor]

These days men now that the risk of divorce is high. They know they will lose the custody of their children and most of their wealth. They know that culture becomes more and more biased toward women : women who cheat are excused and the man is blamed. Women are told that cheating is empowerement. They are taught that touching and groping men is just being a "strong woman". They are told and offered more and more opportunities to betray their partner (dating apps, male strippers, male prostitutes) and are encouraged to use those opportunities.

[Friendlybro79]

@Jhunitor Do they go to school to learn all this? Tell me how my female friend who got caught cheating that she's being empowered be her behavior while she's kicked out of her house living in her parents basement.

[Jhunitor]

@Friendlybro79 Men are more likely to face consequences and they face more severe consequences for cheating (e. g. custody and divorce laws, common law marriage, etc.)

For the case of your friends, she is more likely to get sympathy from others for her situation than a man in the same exact position.

Where women are taught to disrespect men? Awareness campaign only teaching boys to respect girls leading girls to feel above the need to respect boys. Girls being taught about the importance of their consent only while they see boys being taught about girls consent. Campaign about domestic and sexual abuse framing the issue only as male violence against women minimizing the opposite. Girls being less likely to be punished at school for the same misbehaviors as boys teaches them how they are above rules. Girls being able to hit and bully boys without consequences teaches them how abusing males is okay. The general misandry in society reducing empathy toward males and telling females that they are oppressed by males legitimize their sense of self righteousness when abusing males. TV, movies and cartoons when girls hit boys, ridicule or humiliate them is also a component of that education. Women are told to embrace their sexuality and let it free, but because of the above, it is translated by women viewing men as sexual object and not people worthy of respect. So when they find a guy hot or feel like groping, they do it.

[Friendlybro79]

The legal stuff I can see some of your points. The rest of your points I'd like to see a study or some kind of statistic to back of your claims. Sounds like your making men victims of such horrific treatment by women.

[DoctorSex]

Just come back from Africa. Most men in the west would marry in under 6 months when dealing with some of the women I met there.

Men aren't afraid of commitment. But most men are not going to sign a bad contract where you get less than our grandfather's generation but entitled to give a lot more.

I can't wait to get married in Africa, 2 years tops!

Kind regards,

DoctorSex

[DoctorSex]

Can I just mention that when I went to Africa I didn't have to chase stunning women. They chased me in a way that only celebrity men like drake get chased lol
I was followed around from street to street.

They just get it over there, they understand the value of strong men. They are willing to commit, risk it all, because they know beauty isn't forever. You don't find many reserved, passive single women. Those women aren't playing games. Lol they intend to get married and the person they intend to get married to is you! Lol Wow!

Kind regards,
DoctorSex

[es20490446e]

Quite interesting.

[NewYorkCity]

Guys are scared of Marriage, Not commitment and Rightfully so. They are scared of a sophisticated and camouflaged trap that might be laid down under them. A trap that might get activated like a clock work after 3-6 years. A trap that would cause them to loose their kids after few short years, loose their house and their bank accounts being drained to zero, while at the same time being placed into a federal slave bondage until their kids turn 18 (a. k. a) alimony.

[CubsterShura]

Everyone is scared of commitment. You're very young so naturally it will be even harder to come across boys your age who are willing to commit to everything. I'd say don't sweat it and use this time in your life to learn and grow!

[TallAnon]

If we are talking marriage; Since people are smarter about religion nowadays, marriage isn't neccesary anymore, so guys are just being logical about it.
If we are talking dating; If they aren't sure about the girl, they don't want to limit themselves and since you can have sex anyway, why bother getting into a relationship.

[JDavid25]

Nah, plenty of guys want a woman they can love, me included.. It's just that you gotta be careful who you commit to.. A man just needs to find a woman he really wants to have kids with..

[Anonymous]

Yes, and for good reason. Half of marriages end in divorce, women initiate 80% of them, and men get screwed in divorce court and child custody. We see it happening all around us, watching the lives of our brothers and friends being turned upside down. Suicide among middle aged men has skyrocketed in recent years, and this is one of the biggest contributors to that. We should be afraid.

[Anonymous]

No. Guys are just cautious of women who are toxic. Most women and very toxic, and are out for themselves. Not saying men aren't, but a lot of good men become that because a woman fucked them over. So most women have to prove they have a lot to bring to the table before they can get a man that’s all in. Unfortunately this is where women have led us.

[Ms_Facesitter]

No I believe many are happy to commit. But for everyone I think it's difficult to find someone to commit to. Relationships aren't easy.

[Adam1978]

Commiting to the wrong woman, yes not commitment in itself.

[Chazmatazz269]

I know for an absolute fact that men are no more afraid of commitment than women. There’s no empirical evidence to the contrary.

[SnowedIn]

People are scared of commitment, not just guys. But, the real fear is not commitment it's rejection.

[andreasderjuengere]

I don't think so.

''Commitment'' just is -presently- not favoured by a world-style that promotes ''fun'', entertainment and consumerism.

[Blackmoonsns]

Commitment no marriage yes. Whenever I sign a document to get the government involved I have a serious problem with that.

[lightbulb27]

yes amoung other things.

but not all.

[Labokachulaa]

I believe some guys are afraid of it because I've seen it happen to most of my friends.

[Anonymous]

A lot have been brainwashed by what they read online, so they are now useless to a woman. The amount of negativity they spew is sad to say the least.

[Anonymous]

No, we aren't afraid of commitment, we are afraid of the inevitable divorce which will be caused by the woman, and force us to pay alimony, child support, lose everything we have and worst of all, lose our family. Marriage is just a bad deal for men.

[Anonymous]

No, guys are scared of choosing the wrong woman. You never really know someone. And since women are naturally misleading/deceptive a smart guy takes a LONG time to vet them. Because a bad woman will eventually show who she really is.

[TheFlak38]

Just another modern myth. Men are afraid of commitment sure. I bet women who can't be happy with just one man when they can have MILLIONS are not afraid of commitment at all.

[misogynistic_pig]

It is understandable since the commitment is submission to the woman.

[genericname85]

no. but girls love thinking that, cause then it's "the guys issue" and they don't have to improve anything about themself.

[OddBeMe]

I think everyone is. But chicks have this media driven, culturally driven obsession over planning the perfect wedding. So that’s the only difference really.

[weiwei18]

It depends on the guy. I also find majority of the time- the ones that come straight away can be just using (from my past ones) or they honestly are not sure, because they may be afraid or have not thought about it

[FilmGuy93]

I think guys are scared of commitment with most women.

[LiamJHayden]

Some are. Some are afraid of divorce. Some are getting what they want without the responsibility of commitment so why rock the boat?

[Wiredone]

Younger guys, yes I think they are afraid of a commitment. The older guys want a commitment. They want to settle down and have a family.

[ThatCanucker]

From what I have seen men have to be extremely careful who they give their heart and loyalty to these days.

[Bklynbadboy12]

It's not that there scare just most guys especially young guys just don't want that. We live in the age of the hook up culture so most guy want what they want then they move on

[captain_voidwalker]

The real question us whats in it for guys to commit to? Women these days just don't bring anything to the table except headaches and stress.

[Juxtapose]

Look at the divorce rates.. women are the ones afraid of commitment.

[Hottybbb]

Who created the concept of marriage? - Men

who’s more likely to ask for a divorce? - Women

you got your answer.

[McKellar]

Players don't commit. Guys who desire a long term romantic relationship will commit.

[TheeTrybrid]

Hell yeah 😂they only want sex and expect loyalty but won't give it

[Loser94]

I'm more afraid of getting my heart stepped on and that stuff

[Anonymous]

In my experience more girls are scared of commitment 😆

[dolemite89]

guys are scared of committing to some girl that turns out to be unfaithful and/or a psycho

[Anonymous]

They should be because men dies 10 years younger providing their family over 20 years

[MCheetah]

No. We just don't commit to bad or unworthy women.

[Mermaidess]

I'm a woman who's scared of commitment

[trina_x]

guys I've been with seem to be

[Bklynbadboy12]

There not afraid of it just most guys especially young guys don't want to be committed

[Vegasrunner]

@trina_x It's because of the risk guys take (and no women don't take the same risk)

[Agape93]

Some are, most aren't

[sheikalana]

Not scared some are just not interested.

[FunkyMonkee]

I certainly wouldn't want yo be committed!!

[clampfan101]

In general? Maybe.
Personally? Not at all.

[LogicBomber]

No. They just don’t want it.

[Veronica1111]

Depends on the guy

[Iron_Man]

People that are not serious are

[SpokenTruth]

There is no point in it anymore.

[Dinosaursandanime65]

No just….. lazy………….
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[bamesjond0069]

To shitty prospects yes.

[Songomatic]

No. Scared of keeping up with excuses.

[tedbuoyy]

It is a scary thing you know that commitment

[Pterodon]

No not all

[rizeliman34]

No i dont think so

[panamared1]

Yess