Why men don’t commit?

[yesmylove]

I had a guy message me saying “I want to hug you and kiss you” we are not in a relationship, met once before in person. Why are men so dumb? Like? Instead of asking me on a proper date and letting things develop naturally. I’m staying single forever.

[ohsheeT]

Lol that's funny but not

But I don't understand just saying hug and kiss... I mean was that out of the blue. I mean if I was to send a gurl something like that

It would be because of the type of conversation we were having. And we both could feel our energy becoming one ir connecting. And it would not be those two words

it would be in detail in that mmoment everything I would want to do

So not all men don't comment because I do lol

So you could see and. feel every word

[DannyUk2017]

I've read some of your Answers to other people, and to be fair? No offence... No wonder you are and will be single... you say that men "offer only dick" what else do you want? A Pedestal, His Full Bank Account? The newest Car ever? That proves that you are Looking for a "walking wallet" and nothing else... i'm sorry to say, but as long as i work 12h, Take you to dinners, provide and fulfill all your desires is fair to say that... That Pussy, Ass, Mouth, Tits... are Mine! And only mine! Otherwise i could've bought a "pumping doll"...🤷‍♂️🤦‍♂️

[yesmylove]

😆 wow all that assumption over me saying all they offer dick, now you think I want the world. You men keep saying you want a woman that cooks, cleans, births, yet you dusty ass me can’t even provide. That’s the bare minimum after a woman has your children, it’s provide. Men this days are so scared of gold diggers with no money to be dug.

[Flower7]

Because of caring more about getting involved physically than they do about having an actual connection.

[yesmylove]

Unfortunately. And women need connections , so next

[avery58]

Cause Gen Z is into this gay situationship trend

[HawkPerception]

He probably felt close to you after seeing you that one time in person. And not all men are like that Einstein. If you have that much hatred towards men in general, then yeah... you should definitely stay single.

[yesmylove]

Not missing out on anything I know that much

[HawkPerception]

Neither are men when you refuse to date 👍

[yesmylove]

Cool

[capriVib]

The guy just wants a hug what more does he have to say? It means the guy geniun loves you. Maybe he was going to ask for a date as the conversation went on.

But, if you keep rejecting everyone at this age, I can start recommending cat food recipes looks like that'll be the most valuable investment in the future.

[yesmylove]

Okay? So ask me out on a proper date. Not just “I want to give u a hug and maybe a kiss”
What about “ I want to give you a hug and perhaps a kiss. Let me take u out this weekend” this is not the first time he's said that, and hasn't acted on it 🤷🏻‍♀️(asking me on a proper date)

[capriVib]

As far as I understand, u expect the man to take the initiative and indirectly carry out the actions he mentioned (hugging u, kissing u, etc.) without u telling him directly.
But before asking this question here, u could have at least hinted to him indirectly, for example: "All these things u’re saying are just words, Brain, you never even take me out 😒😤" if u had said that, he would have taken action.

[yesmylove]

Oh I've told him his actions are showing me I'm not worthy of being taken out on a proper date, cut him off now he's back but not correctly AGAIN 😒🫠

[Zylos]

Please remember that the whole "ask me on a proper date and let things develop naturally" is totally for the woman's benefit.

So what you're saying is a guy is retarded for following his own nature instead of submitting to your rules.

[yesmylove]

And that’s why I don’t reply. Go somewhere else with that approach. Men always half assing everything.

[Zylos]

Fine, but I never wanna hear about "the patriarchy" again. Women making men jump through hoops for them.

[yesmylove]

If we women accept crumbs that’s all we will continue to get. Step up or step aside

[Zylos]

"Crumbs" lol

[yesmylove]

Yes crumbs any man can provide dick

[Zylos]

QED, men are not privileged.

[Cormac995]

This is why men are tired of approaching women. I'm not saying his opener didn't suck but Jesus god forbid a man shoot his shot. Also "I want to hug and kiss you." Is frankly pretty mild and harmless. I mean FFS it's not like he sent you a dick pick unasked for. He's probably just an awkward guy with a big crush.

[Stevepro68]

Men are simple creatures despite what shrek said we do not have layers. Some have very thin layers. In his defense there is no way you can line up 15 women same age background jobs and ask them what is an acceptable way to approach them romantically and you will get 30 different answers. Men often do what their last relationship asked them for... Again no layers simple. That's why older guys have fewer problems wider range of experience.

[Shiprex]

This isn't a dumb thing to say to someone. How you get to that is beyond me. He's OFFERING to you the chance to take him up on it. It's a clear as vodka suggestion that he wants to get closer to you.

If you can't see that then perhaps the accusation and generalisation about half the population is actually a reflection in the mirror

[yesmylove]

Like I said we only met once in person.

[Shiprex]

And you made a good impression so he wants to get together with you

[RHK36]

If you keep coming across men that won't commit it says more about you and your taste in men. Stop chasing or giving attention to walking red flags. If you can't meet one guy with green flags then most likely you are the problem.

[HighValue]

As a woman past 30, yes, you likely ARE staying single forever. lol

[yesmylove]

Marriage has never been something I’ve wanted. This men aren’t men they’re children than need a maid, no thanks. Only thing they provide is dick. So nice try.

[BarryLiverstone]

Because he’s got hormones and wants to kiss someone. You are a candidate as he’s talking to you. But did you plan a date to meet him?

[yesmylove]

This is only the second time meeting and he hasn’t put any type of effort, so no

[BarryLiverstone]

After meeting twice you haven’t made an effort to plan a date. Did you tell him you like him or why you wanted to pursue him?

[yesmylove]

😆 yeah if suggest a date mf is gonna try to get on top of me. For whatever reason when a woman approaches a man for a date he automatically thinks she wants to “fuck” especially after that’s all his insinuating he wants with me.

[BarryLiverstone]

Good luck. Not all guys wanna have sex that early in a relationship.

[yesmylove]

Not all but he does.

[BarryLiverstone]

As I said, he’s got hormones. Sounds like you are past him already so why worry

[Anonymous]

Women that have this problem choose non commital men

[WhiteThought]

How many guys have you rejected in your life?

[MasterKS]

because sex won't need any commitments.

[yesmylove]

Exactly he has no interest in getting to know me any further than my vag