Is it being ungodly if you don’t talk to someone and ignore them completely bc they upset you?

[Anonymous]

You guys where friends/ buddies

[nawtee_me]

Matthew 5:43-48

New International Version

Love for Enemies
43 “You have heard that it was said, ‘Love your neighbor[a] and hate your enemy.’ 44 But I tell you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, 45 that you may be children of your Father in heaven. He causes his sun to rise on the evil and the good, and sends rain on the righteous and the unrighteous. 46 If you love those who love you, what reward will you get? Are not even the tax collectors doing that? 47 And if you greet only your own people, what are you doing more than others? Do not even pagans do that? 48 Be perfect, therefore, as your heavenly Father is perfect.

[slatyb]

No, you are simply protecting yourself from unpleasantness. You don't have to listen to everyone in the world who wants to talk at you.

[Asker]

Thank you exactly what I am doing tired of being hurt intentionally or not

[slatyb]

It's healthy to have boundaries. You are an adult. If conversation isn't pleasant, you don't have to see that person, even if it's a parent or sibling.

[Asker]

It’s the behavior

[slatyb]

Even worse. Avoid them. You may be sad that the relationship isn't working, but you shouldn't feel guilty that you ended it.

[Asker]

Right

[petitedollbabee]

Everything is ungodly, we’re not gods, nor are any of us close to being one.

[Asker]

Soo in you’re opinion tho do you find that being rude?

[petitedollbabee]

No, you do not have to engage with anyone that you do not want to. You have free will, and you are allowed to have boundaries. Someone who upset you or hurt you is not owed your kindness.

[ProbablyClueless]

I guess it depends on what was said previously and how long it's been, but ignoring them is probably pretty rude.

[Asker]

It’s been almost a month now and it’s something I think he did wrong to me

[In_Trance]

Your triggers are your responsibility. It's not up to the world to tiptoe around you

[jahaims]

Its imaginary. Make your own rules