Yes, It is OK and very important, otherwise, you start to make assumption by yourself. And it will create misunderstanding between you and your friends. as may be he/she is having some problems or issues in his/her life, that's why he/she is behaving like this.
Just ask "how are you, and we haven't had a good chat since long time. and you are quiet these days. Is everything OK on your side, or any problem or tension etc "?
If you can, ask in person or phone. means once-to-one conversation. and you will get to know from their feedback. what's the problem. and If they ask you, why you are saying like this, just say what do you feel. like how you used to do before, and what is happening now.
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Yes it's okay but don't bring it up in an uncomfortable manner, just tell that person you haven't really talked to them in a while and ask if everything is okay.
If anything, call, and say something like, "Hey, what's up? Haven't heard from you in awhile." Wait for a response and then go on to say, "Just wondering why you haven't called or anything lately, kinda missed it." See what they say, can do it on Facebook too...the in person thing isn't as easy, only because if you don't work/go to school with them or they don't have an easy place they work at where you can just visit, then you're not going to see them probably unless you hear from them some other way.
Actually, I just did this. The way I did it was to just message them on Facebook and say this:
"Okay, I just need to know something: are you ignoring me? I don't care if you are, but if you are, just tell me and I'll leave you alone."
This opens it up for them to tell you if they are. If they respond, just say something like "Okay, one last thing and I won't bother you anymore: why?"
That's about the way to do it (:
well...this is tricky because there is not much of a back story
it depends on why they are ignoring you you know
uhm the *best way* to ask out someone who is ignoring you would to ask them to talk to you or go for a walk you know something that doesn't seem like a date because they are ignoring you
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if its important to you. of course you ask why.
every friend appreciates someone caring about them.
glYes, but you have to remember there is probably a reason to why they are ignoring you. Best way I think to ask why they are ignoring you is face to face, via the internet or over the phone.
yes it OK to ask them. ask them in a non abrasive way...just say hey it seems like you're ignoring me is everything OK between us?
yes ..it's fine to ask them that but do it in person.
yes of course, but do it to their face, otherwise they'll just continue to dodge you
Just be up front and ask them
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