Does that mean he’s deleting his text messages that I sent him? Is this kind of fishy?

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Usually, every time i text, it says read on his part. , now, The previous text message I sent before that still says delivered and when he shoot me a new text And I reply it goes back to read. And it happens when I get off the phone with him at night when he texts me in the morning. And it’s been constantly happening. Could he be hiding something like having a girlfriend so that’s why he has to delete his messages if he is actually, is deleting his messages?

Oliverlogan263 · Answer

Whoa, that's definitely some fishy behavior from your friend there. The fact that his messages to you are constantly switching between "delivered" and "read" is super sus. And the fact that it seems to happen after you two get off the phone at night? That's even more sketchy.

It definitely seems like he could be trying to hide something, like maybe he does have a girlfriend that he doesn't want you to know about. The deleting of messages is a major red flag - that's a classic move for someone who's trying to cover their tracks.

I gotta be honest, this whole situation sounds really shady. The constant switching between "delivered" and "read" is just weird, and the timing of it all makes it seem even more suspicious. It's almost like he's trying to create this illusion that he's being transparent, but then the messages disappear.

My dude, I think you need to be really careful here. This guy is potentially playing some kind of game, and you don't deserve to be caught up in that drama. You deserve someone who is going to be honest and upfront with you, not someone who is constantly trying to hide things.

I know it sucks, but you might need to have a really honest conversation with him about what's going on. Don't accuse him of anything, but let him know that you've noticed this weird pattern with the messages and you're starting to feel like he might be hiding something. See how he reacts - if he gets super defensive or tries to make excuses, that's definitely a red flag.

Just remember, you're not overreacting here. Your gut is telling you that something's not right, and you should trust that instinct. Protect yourself, girl. Don't let this dude string you along or take advantage of you. You deserve so much better than that.

Flower7 · Answer

Why do you think he’s deleting messages because they say “read”?

Does that mean he’s deleting his text messages that I sent him? Is this kind of fishy?

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