I text him and asked if he wanted me to stop texting him?

[Anonymous]

Whenever I text him he responds and gives good conversation.

I text him if he wanted me to stop texting and he never responded. It’s been 2 days

[Wise4myage]

Text him one more time, but keep it brief. If he doesn't respond than he must have lost interests for some reason.

[Asker]

I feel like I always bother him. I’ll accept that he doesn’t want me. He’s not going to reach out

[Anonymous]

His silence is a response

[Asker]

But he said he liked talking to me

I’m confused

[Opinion Owner]

I’m also confused now lol maybe text him one more time to check up on him?

[Asker]

But he isn’t trying to pursue a relationship bc of work... he does say he has a lot on his plate

I don't know if that’s him letting me down easy or if he is busy

[Opinion Owner]

Did he say that he still wants to have you around maybe only as a friend? I think it was definitely him letting you down easy, he may still like you as more than a friend but rn he can’t give you a relationship

[Asker]

Yeah he actually did say friendship but he said that I friendzoned him first..

I asked him if he would date me and he said “I think we’ll be at eachothers throats”

But he did say “If you found someone who can give you what you want then I really want that for you “ “ I really do hope you’re happy “ other bs

I really like him but it’s really about him just wanting a sexual relationship

[Opinion Owner]

Hmm sounds to me like he really doesn’t want a relationship rn so the decision’s in your hand, do you wanna stick around fully knowing that he won’t commit to you?

[Asker]

No, I’m not going to stick around. I would want to be his friend but I like him.. it’s hard

He’s wanted sex this whole time and I agreed initially.. then I told him I was on a “spiritual journey”

I told him I was now horny and that I was struggling with it. He said “stay strong “

I kind of got mad... I asked him why he changed his mind he was like “it seemed to mean a lot to me” “I’m trying to support you “ etc but I don't know if he’s just being understanding or if he really doesn’t want to sleep with me bc I don’t want to do friends with benefits and just doesn’t care all together?

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah I feel you, I think it’s best that you take some space away from him for a bit while you sort out your feelings for him. Maybe he was only in it for the sex and that’s it…

[Asker]

Even though he supported my journey? Or that doesn’t mean anything

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah he could still be supportive and still care about as a friend of course but at the same time he could also still be only sexually attracted to you which is why he only wants sex but nothing more as of rn

[Asker]

Okay, it’s definitely time to just let go. It was good while it lasted

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah :( don’t worry you’ll find someone better along the way! ❤️

[Asker]

Thank you!

[Asker]

He messaged me back and said that he wasn’t ignoring me on purpose

He said his job had been hectic

[Opinion Owner]

Oh okay lol. That’s good to hear!