Should I stop texting him?

[Anonymous]

Granted I know he is busy but our text convos have been short lately, he hasn’t made plans in over a week even though I have told him I would like to see him again, and he doesn’t call even though I have called him once this past Saturday

[Anemone978]

Excuses.. dudes who don't want you use excuse's... as I learned the hard way LOL
Quit Messaging him.

[Asker]

Not sure if he doesn’t want me or just truly doesn’t have much time but the texting feels like a bread crumb replacement for not seeing each other. Not into it lol like I want a husband and someone to have kids with.

[Anemone978]

I have a friend with 3 jobs he always finds time for me to talk... so again its excuses lol

[Asker]

He texts back don’t get me wrong lol but it’s rather dry. I feel like I’m just too old for this texting crap. He also doesn’t like texting either but weirdly he doesn’t call but hasn’t really called me at all since we started talking so I don't know.

[Asker]

I even told him I would come over and keep him company while he’s working since it’s an at home job. I feel like he knows he just doesn’t have much time to give, like I don’t want to automatically assume he isn’t interested but either way it’s just not something I don’t want

[Anemone978]

Did he reject your offer to go over?

[Asker]

He didn’t reject it, he just never planned anything after I said that lol I’m not about to invite myself over but I did tell him I would be there for him even if he is busy

[Asker]

He asked me if I had an issue with him possibly having to be on the phone every 5 mins and I said nope I don’t lol I’m the type of person which once I like your presence what we do doesn’t matter

[Anemone978]

What does he do once he is done work, does he call you or invite you over? How long have you known him for?

[Asker]

So he works 2:30-11:30 , he hasn’t really called me at all since the 3 weeks we started talking. So 3 weeks we started talking. He introduced me to his parents and everything. He did express he doesn’t like texting much either but he texts me , it’s probably getting dry because he doesn’t like texting in the first place but like I just don’t understand why he doesn’t just call lol

[Anemone978]

No idea what's up except that he seems he isn't interested.. my friend is like always working but when he gets home he calls me. Even at like 4 or 5 in the morning lol

[Anemone978]

I only known him for 4 months... in the first 3 months we used to text like all day while he was working and we would talk for hours but now it has gone down to were we only talk when he gets off work but I don't mind because we are only friends and Im busy too

[Asker]

Yeah I’m not going to assume but it’s just not something I’m interested in honestly

[Emanon25]

Ask him what happened then decide.

[Asker]

I know what happened. He’s just super busy with work and his job requires him to be on the phone from 2:30-11:30 pm. I just don’t want him to think this one sided treatment is okay though as just a week ago the vibe was a lot different

[Emanon25]

So he has an excuse tho.

[Asker]

It’s an understandable excuse , I’m just kind of tired of carrying our text conversations and I’m not sure if I would be bugging him by calling him as he doesn’t call me

[Emanon25]

Pm me if you’d like to talk more

[KerriH]

Stop it

[Asker]

That’s what I planned lol tired of the one sidedness. He’s busy because of his job, he recently got demoted to a position that makes him work harder but I do feel like since that happened he stopped putting simple effort into me