Should I stop texting him and leave it?

[Anonymous]

Guy met online we talk and called finally got to met in person, first meet was good we talk at his place ,. He text first the next day telling how he enjoyed it and saying I was beautiful and stuff. Second meeting we kissed and talk no sex. He walked me out holding hands , kissed me goodbye couple time, he only texted me the next morning and now no text !!! I did text him and he replied back , but he is not pursuing , should I stop and just take the silent has he not interested anymore? Or should I just ask him?

[Anonymous]

It's always a good idea to be direct and clear in communication. If you're wondering about his level of interest, it might be helpful to simply ask him. You can try saying something like, "I had a great time with you and was wondering if you're still interested in seeing each other or if things have changed?" This gives him the opportunity to share his feelings with you and can help to clear up any confusion. It's also important to remember that people have different communication styles and it's possible that he's just not as communicative as you are. It might be helpful to have an open and honest conversation about your communication expectations in a relationship.

[MrCommodore]

It depends how long it's been since your last date, if only a few days he may just be back at work and crazy busy.

If its quite a while, then he may have lost interest or something

[Anonymous]

You shouldn't text at all. If someone is not prepared to actually talk to you, then they are a lost cause anyway.

[kylee2437]

Why hasn’t he taken you out on an actual date? Going to his house is not him getting to know you

[savagewolf22]

I was about to asked this question..

[kylee2437]

Yup conversation is boring as hell because he isn’t doing his job and asking her on a proper date to stimulate interesting convo

[savagewolf22]

Absolutely ma'am if he can't take you on just a date than you're smart enough to understand how he serious about you.

[Asker]

We live in different town and work schedules! It kinda hard too ! I know sounds lame but true

[kylee2437]

@Littlelady1980 don’t make excuses for him. If he has time to invite you over, he has time to put effort into how he meets up with women.

[savagewolf22]

Maybe he thinks you're not worthy to spend Penny on date.

[kylee2437]

@savagewolf22 yeah and signaling to him that she’s just fine chilling at his house sets the bar pretty low also

[SlavicThor]

No, don't stop send him messages. Men don't want to pursue too much in the begining because it turns women off and we don't want to come accross as needy.

[Sparkie460]

How long has it been since he texted you? He could be busy. Some people have crazy schedules.