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Should I just stop texting him or say something?
I’m a girl by the way Lmao I think I set this up wrong. Anywho, I’ve been texting his guy I met at a bar for almost 3 weeks now, he’s keeps the convo going and always asks me questions but never makes plans to hang out. He texted me “We should hangout soon” and I said yeah that would be fun! But nothing. He went out of town for a week, but still… Do I just stop texting back, or what’s a lowkey way to ask if we’re gonna hangout? I don’t wanna come across as desperate or anything..
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You know... I don't think anyone has ever benefited from "trying not to seem to eager/desperate." That literally is always a bad way to think and conduct yourself. Don't hide how much you like someone. It never ever works to your benefit. Nobody is smart enough to guess what the other person is thinking. Everyone is always ultra-pessimistic about what they think the other person is thinking (hence the idea of not looking desperate in the first place).
That being said... the solution here is super simple.
Ask him when he'd like to hang out.
Done.
Seriouisly, that's... exactly what you need to do. It's a fair question considering the situation. It would be absurd beyond words, if you just stopped texting him. You need to bring it up, and see what's going on. To assume that you're wasting your time... because you're waiting on him to ask you, is some bullshit. Ask him. (what if he's only waiting because he's doing the exact same bullshit: Assuming he knows what you're thinking...(incorrectly)... and doesn't want to come off too desperate himself?)
Don't be a chicken, ask the question you want answered. No beat-around-the-bush "low-key" nonsense. Just ask your question in plain words, the usual way. This is not a complicated situation... Unless you continue to avoid doing what clearly needs to be done. 🙂
I don't know why people text at all. Are people really that bad at communication. It sure seems that way.