This guy and I have been on and off. A few months back he said he couldn't talk to me because it would disrespect his ex girlfriend (that he still likes.) because we really hate each other. I explained to him that he wasn't basically being an idiot because she never respected him and treated him like dirt. So we kept hanging out/talking. But then we had sex and a week or so later, he said we shouldn't talk anymore. His ex found out we had sex and she freaked out, and he didn't want to mess things up with her, so we dropped contact. A few days ago I dialed him while I was drunk by accident and he messaged me back the next morning. He was sending me pretty long detailed messages, which is weird for someone that doesn't wanna talk to me anymore. I ended the conversation and didn't expect to hear from him again. Then I woke up this morning to a text from him. Wtf? I even told him never to talk to me again the last time he pulled the 'we shouldn't talk' stunt. Should I just ask him what his deal is , and tell him to make up his mind or f*** off? I don't know if he realized what a tool his ex is and now thinks he made a mistake by dropping me or what.
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He's in love with his ex and is using you as a back up plan incase she leaves. If he doesn't think you a worth being in her company then I suggest you drop him. What if he gets back with his ex? You will be dropped again, I've seen this happen. Have some dignity and tell him to f''''k off! Don't be second option for anyone0