Would this mean he likes me or he jus finds me hot hahah?

[Anonymous]

One of my male friends who I guess you could call us a situationship. We’ve slept together on and off over 6 years, gone months without talking but now back to talking. I send vids to him on snap and I don’t care he saves them but he’s told me he masturbates to them all the time. I obviously really like him but am also really chill with the situation. Guys - him saying that do you think it could mean he may somewhat like me or he just likes my videos 😂 I’ll still take it as a compliment either way but hahah.

[LiamS95]

Are we to assume your videos are sexual in nature? If do then what guy wouldn't like them, although I would say even thst type of video would mean more to me if I knew and liked the woman doing the video. It's difficult to give a straight factual answer to your question without knowing more then you probably want you share publicity which I fully understand. He probably does like you to some degree, after all you have had sex together and still communicate together after six years. If you have any further questions feel free to dm me.

[Asker]

Yes the videos are sexual material in which he saves in our chat. The situation even confuses me because we’ve never dated, but throughout 6 years we have been on and off I guess as friends with benefits. Recently he’s just told me he masturbates to my videos all the time which made me think maybe he is starting to like me more or then again maybe he just loves the videos hahah. Thanks for the reply!

[LiamS95]

I didn't realize you had never dated with him I just assumed there would of been some dating or casual hanging out. He may be only interested in his sexual relationship with you which is up to you to decide if you're good with that and are not looking for something more.

[LiamS95]

He's z very lucky guyvto have such a sweet female friend but it seems to me you could do better as he seems to be getting most of the benefits.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Seems like neither of y'all care for commitment and if that's the case why would either of you want to change what's currently going on, it wouldn't make sense, if I had to guess it sounds like you want something more and he probably doesn't, you won't see any change unless you make that feeling of wanting something more obvious to him because he most likely thinks you are okay with it as well, which if that's the case then I don't think I understand your question.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Which if that's not the case*

[BarryLiverstone]

He could just be a nice guy. You said he’s just a friend. Do you like him?

[BarryLiverstone]

Because you said he’s just a friend and you go months without talking to him

[Asker]

Yeh I like him more than a friend. Unsure how he feels about me because I don’t ask haha. But in my head it can’t mean nothing because over 6 years we have talked on and off as well as sleeping together. And throughout the 6 years sometimes we wouldn’t talk for months and months but whenever we talked again it was like we never stopped. I’m so comfortable with him to the point I share sexual videos allow him to save them and he said he wanks over them all the time so me, as a female guesses he must be thinking about me a lot and am curious if maybe he likes me more but isn’t saying?

[BarryLiverstone]

If that’s true he may like you more than just a friend. Because you said that you feel comfortable around him and that you keep reconnecting and feel a connection. Has he told you his emotions lately?

[strateguy632]

He means you are hot, as a compliment.

[Anonymous]

He finds you quite hot.

[In_Trance]

This means nothing