Is it normal if a guy always gets jealous of things you do?

[Jasmine0707]

So like do most guys get jealous over their gfs over small things?

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Mostly over things I wear. Should I let my boyfriend tell me what I can and can't wear? Specifically a bra? Or more to the point he becomes jealous if I don't wear a bra

[gemb00]

It depends what kind of things they get jealous about. If it’s you being friends with a male friend or speaking to another man, that’s a red flag.

[Jasmine0707]

Not exactly that but similar.

[Jasmine0707]

It's mostly about what I wear. Like he becomes jealous if I don't wear a bra

[gemb00]

If that’s the case then he’s worried your nipples will show. Men like hard nipples, they think it’s because you’re turned on. But most of the time it’s due to the climate.

[Jasmine0707]

Exactly it's normally the climate but he is definitely worried about nipples and that makes him jealous

[gemb00]

You can’t help if your nipples are on show because it’s cold. He needs to lighten up

[Jasmine0707]

I think so too. I don't think bring braless and if nipples show, I don't think it looks that bad for him to become jealous or upset over

[bowenw]

Not normal and the behavior of a controlling personality. Tell him to find a girlfriend that is okay with his childish behavior.

[Jasmine0707]

He isn't controlling except only in this way

[bowenw]

It could be a sign of things to come, like controlling where you can go without him, or who you can have as friends. I suggest you tell him you will wear what you want and if you want his opinion on any of your clothing you will ask.

[Jasmine0707]

Good point. Never thought of it being something to come

[MasterKS]

no, thats asshole behaviour.

[Jasmine0707]

What part? Or all of it?

[MasterKS]

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