Making a guy jealous?

[Anonymous]

Do girls try and make a guy jealous if she likes a guy and he's not responding to her flirting , a girl made me jealous by going off with a guy I know outside the club one night and it really hurt me ever since , only I think it was done on purpose because I was really hurt and started to ignore her ever since and she chases after me now but never said anything about that night .

[justathought]

Yes girls do that too! Yes she probably likes you. Why not confront her about it? Ask her, "Do you like him?" If she says no, then ask her, "Do you like me?" Try to make it a playful conversation. You seem pretty upset about it but when you ask her, you shouldn't show that you're upset. She may get scared off by that. Just asking her the questions will be enough for her to know that you noticed and you're curious, which is the effect she was probably going for all along. I'm sure she didn't want to hurt you. Sometimes you guys move at the pace of a snail and we want you to take the next step, so we try to give you a little push. Good luck! :)

[walalalaa333]

yess girls do try to make guys jelous..its kindaa a way to see what their reaction is and if they're into u. we onlyy do this to get your attention because we aren't exactly suree of how you feel about us. but maybee it wasn't purposelyy..and maybee she didn't noee she was doing it :S

[Asker]

But does that mean that she really likes me or just mess guys around in general

[walalalaa333]

Well it depends on what kind of person she is...if she's super flirty, she might just be messing with u.

ive only done it to this guy that I really liked because I didn't noee any other way to get his attention. I totally regret it thoughh

[BayCityGirl1]

Yes! Girls and guys try to make each other jealous. You said you were not responding to her flirting? If so, I think she probably felt rejected and this is typical. If you are not going to give her attention she is going to show you that someone else will. This is a very typical reaction.

[Asker]

But does that mean she really likes me or just likes messing guys around for fun

[willow74]

I know I've definitely tried it...I didn't actually go out with anyone, though. All I did was set my Facebook to "in a relationship" and see if he had a response to it the next day in school. Needless to say, after about 4 days he still wasn't acting any differently toward me. I was heart broken due to my backfired plan, and set my status back to single.

[Anonymous]

It prob means that she likes you but maybe not, this might sound weird but id do that kind of thing in front of my ex sometimes, not with his friend, I think that's kinda bad but defo with some really hot guy in a club. even if I have no feeling for them at all, I don't know why I do it... :) x

[makeurmove]

I know guys hate it, but I tend to do it anyway. I flirt with his friends more then I flirt with him, and a lot of times it makes them not like me anymore. And when I see the guy I like flirting a lot with other girls I'm instantly uninterested. It's dumb thing for us to do.

[gummybear888]

I never tried making anyone jealous. Not that I can remember. I try to treat others like how I want to be treated.

[music-diva]

yes girls try to make guys jealous, just like guys try to make girls jealous. end of story

[MaxAsian9]

yes! but I PERSONALLY think that was too over if she was trying to make a guy jealous. she made herself look cheap.