How can I make my crush jealous? I really would like him to notice me more?

[Serenity-chan]

I know this maybe a stupid topic but it's 11pm and I'm pissed. Lately we're at the stage of 6 months friendship let's piss each other and make each other jealous and fight like brother and sister. 😤 Anyhow, his way of making me jealous is constantly talking about talking about how great his life is and bringing up other girls using them as way just to piss me off and I get jealous. Or he gets pissed off over some stupid minor thing that I did and blocks my cell number and Facebook and unblocks me a day later. He often says that I'm too sensitive and too emotional and that I cry over stupid shit. well he's too stubborn and snaps over the stupidest shit, he's too full of himself, and keeps saying I'm not good for you give up on me, etc. Lately, I've been losing weight and tummy fat due to exercising and guys can't help but check out me wherever I go. But, is there anyway I can make this guy jealous? Make him realize that he's missing out on a great girl, who loves him.

[Zalewe]

Why not make him realise he's missing out on a great girl by being yourself...
Maybe if you both grew up a little you could have been dating by now rather than playing off each other. You both sound very inexperienced on how to communicate with the opposite sex. Guys who get jealous usually get violent, thats not fun or something to be played with.

[Serenity-chan]

And he thinks oh I'm a 20 year old guy I know how women work, yeah right. 😒

[Koolz123]

Listen to me carefully never make a guy jealous you'll lose him for good, if you like him then tell him don't play retarded mind games with him smh

[Serenity-chan]

Well, he makes me jealous all the time apparently it's guy logic to piss a girl off a lot to make her think about you more. But, I don't understand why he keeps saying give up on me, I'm not good for you.

[rosayy]

Listen to @Koolz123

[Serenity-chan]

Well, since he's playing mind games with me what should I do? We're both at fault here.

[Serenity-chan]

And he knows how I feel, he just loves using it against me. You see he knows that I love him and want to be his gf, he can use it to his advantage.

[Koolz123]

It's not guy logic at all, well tease the shit outta you in a confident way instead of complaining about your flaws (you need to understand this its not high school cause I did that shit with my ex who was a crazy cheerleader that wouldn't give me space) that's not a way to get you thinking about him. Have you even told him you liked him? Cause if you haven't no wonder why your both in this rut cause you guys are playing mind games, sorry to be blunt but you have to realize your both 18-24 years old its a time where you have to a Mature relationship not some drama bullshit you had in high school

[vjreejr]

I cannot echo Koolz123 strongly enough. DO NOT PLAY GAMES WITH A MALE - EVER! If you want a good relationship with a male, earn his trust. If he feels safe with you like he might with his mom, then you've won him. (You don't need to be like his mom; just make him feel safe...) If you play games with him, he will not trust you and then you've lost him.

[Koolz123]

Just freaking tell him that you want to pursue something with him be straight forward and if he's still Doing that shit forget the hell about him

[Serenity-chan]

Well, he knows that I want him. But, he won't date unless my overall rating this is a combination of looks and personality is a 10. 😒

[Koolz123]

How do you know that?

[Serenity-chan]

I'm honestly at the point of saying fuck you Kevin, you've hurt me enough! 😭 It's a constant game of cat and mouse, blocking of cell numbers and Facebook and unblocking. When will it end? 😪

[Koolz123]

Your honestly being negative towards this stop putting up with this crap, if you really want him you'll make it clear and believe that you can have the relationship, you're the creator of your own destiny, not anyone else YOU, stop doubting and ask him out. Don't play freaking mind games with him, control your emotions and tell him you like him if that doesn't work out with him then move on but you gotta stop beating yourself up over this right now

[Koolz123]

Woah that's crazy that's my name if it makes you feel better you can say that to me to get it off you're chest lol

[Serenity-chan]

Well, I kinda just said it. Sorry. 😳

The point is he knows that I love him, I told him I love you, but he uses it against me. What do?

[Koolz123]

Lol thanks 😑

Be straight up and ask him if feels the same way cause if you don't stop wasting my time playing mind games and hurting me, you honestly don't need this in your life at this age. As another Kevin speaking on behalf on Kevin, mind games are guaranteed for failure in a relationship

[Serenity-chan]

Let's see Heather is hurt and confused. 😭 Kevin 1 has blocked me on Facebook and my phone. 😒 And the last I asked him how he felt it turned into the disaster known as the time when my crush faked to be my for two days and the I love you that I was a lie. All part of his plan to just calm down angry Princess who kinda forced him to admit his feelings when he wasn't ready. 😓

[Error_204]

This often backfires.

[Serenity-chan]

Why and how?

[Error_204]

First, you need a ton of control over the situation to make jealousy work; even one or two misfires or unexpected occurrences and it all melts down. Secondly there are too many variables you don't control.

[Serenity-chan]

Then again I don't have much control, he's going out of state for the holidays and then he's moving to Florida. Plus, he's making jealous now with another girl. 😓

[Error_204]

Koolz123 has this. I guess. Good luck.