Why does my crush tries to make me jealous?

[Anonymous]

he sits and flirts with other girls and then looks in my direction. i feel like he is trying to make me jealous. but when i talk to other guys he starts talking to me. i am confused. what does it mean?

[Mia-Wallace]

He probably wants to see how you react and *if* you react when he's talking to other girls. Maybe become a little territorial.

He could also be a player and attention seeker. Be aware of that too. If he wanted you to be his but also wanted you to tolerate him flirting with other girls, he's basically cucking you from the start. He wil cheat.

[Asker]

yeah i also think this.
it's been a month when i was tired of his games and then i gave up. bc he was messing with my brain. i ignored him and stoped making eye contact. he used to look sad after it and stopped flirting with other girl. but again he started talking to me yesterday and today he was flirting with that other girl. it hurts my feeling

[Blackmoonsns]

I think you might have a general idea of women's attraction and how to keep a man when women are really committed and want to lock down a guy they recognize by other women that he's attractive and desirable and it makes a woman double down and wants to secure a long-term relationship with him women don't want to be with a man that other women don't find attractive desirable so he is doing this to get a rise out of you.

[Summeroflove]

Ask him out. If he rejects you or doesn’t give a clear answer let him be. If he really liked you. He would flirt with you. But hey. Maybe he’s exploring options too.


So better to ask him now and not wait

[JanaTalks]

If you're in high school then he's just immature.

[Asker]

yeah. how should i react to him making me jealous with other girl? he was being extra nice to her and looking at me to see my reaction

[JanaTalks]

I personally would not give him the benefit of feeling accomplished by getting with him. I know its hard if you still like him but there's a good chance if you do nothing he'll just move onto someone else.

When i was in highschool something similar happened to me and i remember asking for advice on here lol. Anyways, he was nice to me but would be mean to me in front of his friends and then when they weren't around he'd try to get my attention and as far as I knew he would only do that to me, then i weirdly developed a crush on him probably because I never really got attention from other boys, and then he started talking to me less and giving another girl attention by being nice to her, and its probably because i would be cold to him because why would i be nice to him after he was mean to me and made me look like a fool in front of his friends? Then the semester ended and when we came back for the new school year we were assigned to sit right next to each other again and this time i tried talking to him more, but would still not be completely nice to him because he never apologized, and then he ended up giving yet another girl attention and things ended like that and i got over him because he would rarely talk to me after that.

Point of me telling that story is he might just get bored of you not doing anything and move on and maybe even if you do confess to him, he just might not reciprocate. You're only a teenager. Looking back at it you'll just laugh at the whole situation and how immature it was. I certainly do.

If I had the balls and was in your exact situation what i would do is one day go "hey [name] you like her? good for you, so glad i got over you a long time ago" and then start to talk to someone else leaving him surprised. But again, that's really ballsy.

[Vikkrram]

I think he just wants attentions and just making u feel jealous.

[Asker]

to hurt my feelings?

[Vikkrram]

Means did he know that you likes him? Have you ever said to him?

[Asker]

i did'nt tell him. but i think he knows.

[Vikkrram]

How you think he knows?

[Asker]

when i look at him he tries to make eye contact and smiles like he knows.

also last month i was disturbed by his behaviour of making me feel jealous so i ignored him and stoped making eye contact. he used to look sad after it and stopped flirting with other girl. but yesterday he started talking to me and today he was flirting with that other girl again

[Vikkrram]

Hmm you Know this flirting thing of him making his behaviour weird for me otherwise it was just that he didn't have the courage to say you that he likes you...

[Illaskalotof]

Maybe he likes you. Some guys do that on purpose. Start talking to him and show him some intrest. On the other hand he might have understood that you like him and he is doing it in purpose

[Asker]

i think he understood i like him. but if he does'nt like me then what will he get by making me jealous?

[Illaskalotof]

Some boys are actually so stupid that they would actually not like u and still want to make you jealous. Sometimes they so that so u chase them. The best advice i can give u is to be indifferent now around him like he's a stranger or at least a known one. Dont show interest. I did this and they are the one to talk to me first. He knew that i liked him and he started doing the same thing until now.

[JPresidente]

Secretly he wants you to pursue him more and make a move. He also wants to keep you in his orbit and pining for him.

[FilmGuy93]

That he's insecure.

[Ninania]

He's very immature, that's for sure.

[Anonymous]

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[Asker]

is it funny?