How to get a guy chase you?

[Anonymous]

There’s a guy i like on social media, wanna connect with him on insta but he won’t accept my request.
It’s been 2-3 years and i was secretly stalking him but given longer time gaps i sent him request on insta maybe in a course of 3 years 2-3 times i must have sent. But he never accepts i really wanna connect with him start an interaction, the truth is also that he is in my mutuals but he doesn’t know me personally. What to do I can’t message him directly it would seem desperate.

[Summeroflove]

You can’t make someone chase you don’t play games if you want someone tell them you like them if they ignore you then stop wasting your time on someone who ignores you. It’s not worth your time.

Getting someone to chase you is called playing games and people who want something serious aren’t going to play those games. They will simply show interest and continue giving effort if they get effort back. Otherwise what’s the point

[AnonAndrew]

Steal something of his while he's watching, and run away. He'll start chasing you right away!

That's a joke, but I don't really have a good answer. There aren't really any "tricks" or magic words we can use to make someone suddenly want us bad.

If he hasn't even accepted your follow requests for 3 years, then there's probably not much you can do online to make him like you. :(

[Vevv123]

It sounds like you're going through a tough time with obsessive feelings, which isn’t a healthy place to be. It might be helpful to find ways to distract yourself, like hobbies, spending time outdoors, and even therapy can help you combat these thoughts. In fact… consider deleting the app you’re using to send him requests.

[Twalli]

I would guess he's not interested in you.

[Asker]

That’s the thing if i knew him personally then he would have acted differently but he is like a stranger to me.

[Anonymous]

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