Guys, be honest... how often to you check a girl out on an average day?

[DishLady]

All day. It's pretty much an automatic reflex. It doesn't mean anything, though. (It's just a guy thing.)

A few times a day. It's just a momentary distraction. It doesn't mean anything, though. (It's just a guy thing.)

Only if I happen to see a girl I find attractive or interesting. I'm single, so it's usually someone I'd want to talk to or get to know better.

I'm married (or in a committed relationship) and don't disrespect my lady that way. But occasionally there's an undeniably attractive woman I can't help noticing.

I'm married (or in a committed relationship) but don't care what my lady thinks. If I see a woman I'll look. I don't care if she'll be upset by it.

[OlderAndWiser]

I am married, faithful, and try to not do anything disrespectful to my wife. I don’t flirt with other women and i don’t seek other women. Away from the office, i avoid situations where i would be alone with another woman.


But i can’t deny that there are some very pretty women on this planet and, if i see one, i look. But i don’t ogle.

[DishLady]

Fair enough.

[Anonymous]

In all honesty, very rarely. When I was younger sure. But now that I’m older, nothing special about most women if I’m being honest. There’s thousands of women w the same assets. Seen enough, had more than my fair share. Maybe it’s also because I’m married going on 17 years. There’s a lot of things in my life to focus on that are more important. Once in a great while someone might catch my eye, but it’s just a mere glance then back to reality.

[DishLady]

That sounds like how my grandpa used to be. Once he married there was a decreeable difference. It was always sweet to me that even when they were older he only had eyes for my gran. SHE actually would ask him once in a while "Don't you think that woman over there is pretty?" And he would just look over at her and say, "Maybe, but she's not you."

They've both passed a while ago, but I still remember that and wish every guy to find a gal who makes him feel that way -- and every gal to find a guy who can truthfully say that to her.

[Opinion Owner]

After 17 years there’s more to it than just looks. She knows me more than I know myself. She anticipates what I want before I know what I want. She takes care of me at home. I take care of us financially, physically, mentally, etc. Yes in my younger years I looked at just about every cute girl. Been a a good amount of them too. But that was purely physical, nothing more. After sometime that just wasn’t appealing to me anymore. Sure every man may not think my girl is the cutest, hottest or whatever but she’s everything to me. Doesn’t matter what everyone else thinks. What matters is what we think. I can admit when a girl is pretty, but it’s usually just a glance nothing more. I don’t put other women on a pedestal like I used to. Again many of them have the same assets other women have. What matters is who has my heart.

[DishLady]

Aww. I love that. Thank you so much for sharing this. <3

[NathanDavis]

I don't really do that

not on purpose anyway

maybe once a week or a month, some will come along that's looking extraordinarily good, like dayum... but even that, I am very discreet about it, basically... as long as her, or nobody else can see me checking her out, I won't do it, lmao

I don't like to make anybody feel weirded out

if they do check me out first though... then I might reciprocate, lol

[HawkPerception]

Well I currently don't go out very often. Pretty big homebody. I won't lie though. When I do go out and see an attractive girl, I do tend to glance. It's natural. Can't help it. And if you're in a relationship, just because you're with that person doesn't mean you suddenly lose attraction to the opposite sex.

The key is that when you're with your partner, you make an extra effort not to look. Although it's natural to glance, you should also respect them and not make them uncomfortable.

[Joshydavid25]

As a single man filled with testosterone, it's all day.. Especially when I work at a job where I would see women passing by all day.. I don't stare just usually get quick glances and do double takes if I really wanna see how they look.. Now, if I know for sure they won't notice me, I might take a longer glance then usually..

[Sunrising]

Are you telling me, females don't check out the guys too !

My opinion?

I try to be friendly with all the girls, is that checking out?

[DishLady]

I'm sure they do, but it's not at the same rate, I think.

No, friendly is just friendly. Checking out is like giving a girl a visual once over.

[exitseven]

I am married but my wife and I determined early in our relationship that I am allowed to look.

[DishLady]

Lucky guy... I had to talk a woman out of leaving her guy bc she "caught him looking" and he dug a hole for himself by saying he looks ALL THE TIME but it doesn't mean anything bc he loves her.

I tried to explain to her that it's a reflexive thing for some guys. It took some doing -- and two nights of her sleeping on my couch -- to get her to see reason.

[exitseven]

My wife knows that I am a fitness nut and appreciate a fine toned body. It is what attracted me to her in the first place.

[DishLady]

Lol. And to you let her look as well?

[exitseven]

Yes,

[DishLady]

Niiiice. I like you guys...

[MicahRaine]

Almost never. I have too much respect for anyone I'd be interested in to check them out like that. That doesn't mean I don't notice if a girl is hot, but it does mean I'm not looking at her boobs or ass 🤷‍♂️

[Juxtapose]

It depends entirely on if I have taken care of my lust or not. If I just let it build up and don't do anything about it? It's going to make me think like a horny teenager and there's not really much I can do besides relieve that urge.

It feels awkward talking to female friends and looking at them like they are a juicy piece of steak so I take care of myself.

[Anonymous]

If she's my type - very often.

If not - then I'm not checking her out.

[DishLady]

Physically your type, correct? Or do you wait first to see if she's interesting?

[Opinion Owner]

Yes, you're right, physically. I can't read signals, I never know if she's interested.

[DishLady]

To be fair, I don't think all women are terrific at reading signals either.

[HungTexan]

I look. Why not?

[DishLady]

No judgement. Just asking.

[Mark987]

It all depends. Not as much anymore but when I used to work summer jobs... I worked at a company where the women were all gorgeous. All the men would check out the women.

[polodude2013]

Just a quick glance. Definitely no staring.

[eagle1951]

not much anymore