Am I reading too deep into this?

[Anonymous]

The guy I’m talking to just sent me a text 8 hours later telling me he couldn’t respond because he wasn’t feeling well and took medication. Mind you, we spoke hours ago before this , he didn’t mention feeling unwell or anything. I don’t know how to approach this situation, a little text letting me know they were heading to bed early because they weren’t feeling well could’ve went a long way. He was the one saying he wanted me to put in more effort and respond faster but can’t communicate when you’re going to be unavailable for multiple hours

[AReyMarz]

He might be pulling away, if he feels like he has to ask you to reply sooner this might be his way to show you the golden rule and let you know why he doesn’t like it. That said, just stay consistent, if he doesn’t change up to a faster response time after a week of consistent texting, he may have moved on.

[Abbycado]

Are you that needy that you require immediate notification of his current status? Ever had a migraine? That shit comes on fast and is devastating.

Just saying... things happen and you can't always assume you are priority one.

[ienjoylookingatgreen]

Yes generally good to just flow through life naturally and let things happens no need to overthink this