What are guys thinking when they’re checking you out?

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I started working as a server and noticed several guys just looking at my chest while I’m walking around doing stuff. I was kind of surprised because I have small boobs (Bs) and I’m covered from my neck and down. I’m usually in a tight (ish) black turtleneck and black pants. Is it just a thoughtless reaction due to detecting movement or is there a whole imagination or are y’all just zoning out while talking? I don't know

SomothErgai · Accepted Answer

Obviously can't speak for all men but for me that's actually an interesting question. I'm thinking back on girls I've checked out and I don't really "imagine" anything. I know it sounds like a cliched line but, for me, it's really like admiring a beautiful work of art.

Try to think of something you find incredibly beautiful. A song. A painting. A sculpture. Whatever it is. Just something you find breathtakingly beautiful. You kind of longer on it right? You notice all of the perfections in the piece that just make your jaw drop.

There is of course an element of lust in it for me. That's obvious. But it's much more of a... I guess an almost disbelief that something so beautiful could be real. So I look. And I look as long as I can until that beauty is gone again and all I have left of it is my memories.

xkildy · Accepted Answer

That lady below seems mad, date night much have went bad. To make a long story short. Sometimes we do zone out while others times. We enjoy the sight of a well formed women. (Not fat) I'm saying well dressed. You said you had nothing showing right. To a lot of men that's sexy as heck. That's the way I think and so many others. We are tired of boob's in our faces all day. Yes we look yes they look nice. But we want modesty and someone who is nice. Chances are you are that person. Or the perv thought. Like the lady below they want to to play with them and such

SueShe · Accepted Answer

Cup B breasts are not small. AA sized ones or even A cup would be considered small.

You can imagine what men in general think of when looking at a girl's chest, right? Use your imagination.

If you still don't know, then let me into a secret. Men will think of how they would like to fornicate with you. Now, the cat is out of the bag. You know everything there is to know about men looking at women's breasts.

They (men) are all the same. They are ruled by their levels of testosterone rather than to be in control of them.

Beachbummama84 · Accepted Answer

Imma Full D/DD if you’re a B guys will check you out. The. Stare at your ass when you walk away. Guys check ever girl out who’s fairly attractive. I see it with my son who’s 19 lol they’re checking out the goods lol

RavVid · Answer

I'm always window shopping. Why wouldn't I look at things that I like?

Such as breasts, waist, ass, legs, face, hair, hands, arms, shoulders, feet. There is not a single part of the female body I don't enjoy looking at. So I look.

I am not fixated on any particular body part - I look at the part I like best. It is fairly normal that we focus on parts.

You might have Bcups but they are still breasts and quite a lot of us like & prefer small breasts. I am one of them.

That you are covered up is no big deal because we are pretty skilled at mentally undressing you.

One of the things I do like checking out is the movement of a girls body. That can be quite sensual.

Overall you have a good job for being checked out.

hahahmm · Answer

A woman could be attractive to a guy if all he could see was her face. Yes, guys have imaginations. For eons... men have been attracted to women. It's just basic biology that some want to deny exists for some crazy reason.

Side note: in the old days the vast majority of women were attractive. Like 99%. With body positivity, feminism and people being more self-centered and claiming what's best for society is unimportant it's changed to like only 30% of today's women being as good looking as women of the past or something.

So if you don't like guys looking I have good news, fewer and fewer guys are looking or caring.

Summeroflove · Answer

If it’s sexually then probably getting you into bed. But men can also look at a woman romantically and be more thinking romantic stuff…. Sounds cheesy I know but more cuddling, kissing, going on dates, and even thinking what a future may look like with you.

So if he looks all dreamy it may be the latter if he looks wild just looking at your privates well…. Probably the former

EzraIsShy76028 · Answer

Well there's not much to it, lol. Guys are just horny, so they'll look. But if you notice them looking though then they're probably being disrespectful. Like a glance is fine but not prolonged staring. Also, if a guy finds you attractive it doesn't matter if you have small boobs or a small butt or if you wear the baggiest clothes in the world that completely obscure your body. He'll look either way.

HawkPerception · Answer

Depends on what you're wearing. If it's tight outfits that outline your body clearly like in the image you used, then it's simple stuff like "She has an amazing body."

If she's wearing an elegant dress then that changes to "Wow that girl is beautiful, feminine, elegant, and classy".

Communicationisking · Answer

Boob size is not everything... maybe they are just looking at your body in general not just your boobs.. if your comfortable with it and it doesn't bother you hopefully you feel like you are attractive but if it bothers you then that's no good and hope you can resolve it.

BobbieBoy666 · Answer

Guys typically scan your body if they think you're attractive or they're trying to flirt with you. He might also be checking you out because he's too shy to approach you. Watch for other flirtatious body language signals, like prolonged eye contact or leaning in toward you.

Purpleronnie · Answer

Generally speaking , they are just appraising form , it’s how nature intended us.
What they are thinking specifically depends and likely isn’t as “one track” as many women beleive or assume.

I can look at a woman , trace the outline of her form and think “wow” or I can think “jeez does she even own a mirror” or I can wonder something arbitrary like “ I wonder what she does for a living or what she is going home to “ or wait … I think I know her

Stevepro68 · Answer

If an attractive guy walks around women will look. It's instinct. I have never once had to make my self not look at a man. Because I dont lean that way. But a woman all the time I has exert control over my instinct to look..

Sonorous · Answer

I honestly forget to check women out I just be lookin at men when I do go out. But I imagine I'd be think "damn" or "Jesus christ" or "oh yeah she's way out of my league"

Anonymous · Answer

It's a lizard brain (old brain) low level reaction to the presence of a possible fertile mate so we're thinking along those lines before higher level thinking kicks in.
Breasts are an obvious female indicator which in other animals would also indicate she's in heat. But not in humans..

FriendlyCanadianGuy · Answer

Honestly whenever I checked out a women I don't even realize Im doing it. Women are beautiful and very easy to just look at.

I'm never thinking maaan I would fuck her or imagine her naked, it's not like that at all

NicholasRedone · Answer

I'm thinking eye 👁️ 👀 (true stories throughout my 20s, different women different memories) - tick tick tick tick Terminator vision display 😚😚😚😄 of "good good good good - oh wait, I don't like their hair" 😶😕

Aakash_Hangargi · Answer

Could be all three maybe zoning out , or you were just looking attractive also it's not the size but also the shape and tonality of the body that might pull attention if the dress is tight then yes you have our attention.

I_Can_Help · Answer

Is this a serious question? Whenever you wiggle your clueless buttocks, a horny dude is thinking about inserting his throbbing penis inside of your naive & oblivious snatch. Hopefully you are ready to be a mom. Because it won't be long now. Soon, a broke waiter or a greasy cook will be balls-deep, filling you to the brim with seminal fluid. Being a single mom won't be easy in this era of Trump tariffs and Trump inflation.

ProbablyClueless · Answer

We aren't thinking anything. We're just admiring the view lol You're gonna drive yourself crazy by trying to understand or read into stuff like that at a deeper level.

Joshydavid25 · Answer

I don't know, about other guys, but I'm mostly just enjoying the view, whether it's the face, her entire being, or the booty.. I don't look at the boobs much unless they stand out.

LiamJHayden · Answer

It depends upon the guy. Almost any straight guy can notice even a moderately attractive lady without thinking anything perverse. Some appreciate beauty without wanting to bed her. Others mentally undress every woman they see even if she is dressed frumpily. There are variations in between.

Finchie40 · Answer

How beautiful you look and how sexy you would look naked in their arms lol

retarb · Answer

my eyes are drawn to butts so usually my thoughts are one word answers like "Booty." or "butt." or "neat". now if I just see a pretty lady in general I just think "oh neat." or "that's nice."

noohair · Answer

The caveman part of the brain was focused on men spreading their DNA on to future generations. The unconscious part of that brain does a physical scan of all women to evaluate them as potential DNA recipients. All men do this.

HungTexan · Answer

They’re imagining what you’d look like naked. 🥵

chrissykerdock · Answer

i've always turned heads of both sexes when i wear a minidress

virtualwasp · Answer

Creeps will be creeping. Just how it is it seems.

Anonymous · Answer

Contrary to some beliefs a lot of men do like small breasts. They look because they think you do not notice.

Shiprex · Answer

It's a natural behaviour men have been chastised for since time immemorial. See something you like, look at it.

Oh you fiend. How dare you objectify me...

Creep predatory tends to be follow up accusations

convo_king89 · Answer

Being covered up probably add some mystery and he thinking what you look like naked. You must have a nice face!

exitseven · Answer

I try to picture what they look like naked.

Dongie · Answer

We are drinking in the sexual beauty of your derriere.

Emmann88 · Answer

B cups are hot as hell. They are the perfect size. I love a pair of cute B cup size boobs and a nice little round ass.

DrPepper12 · Answer

Just admiration, lust, fantasy, awe, hope...

LiamS95 · Answer

Just appreciating the wonders of God's amazing creation.

David_beckham · Answer

That depends upon what turns on that particular guy; sometimes it's boobs and sometimes it's ass.

Anonymous · Answer

When i’m in the train every time a woman passes i see men just starring at their butts. Its honestly so gross and it makes me so uncomfortable. I hate seeing horny ass people in public; just sexualizing random strangers for existing.

Uglygaypoorcoward94 · Answer

We dont really think we just admire the beauty, now saying something is a different story like "nice ass"

lorenzomichael · Answer

Remember this The same way girls just want money us guys just wanna fuck everything that’s the truth.

ienjoylookingatgreen · Answer

I think stop looking at me weirdo I get enough chicks

Anonymous · Answer

I'm initially thinking as to whether or not her face is attractive, and then how sexy her legs are, or aren't. If she's wearing long pants or a long dress then I'm not really even wondering about that then

Anonymous · Answer

Basically thinking "nice ass/tits/body"

Babygirl_S · Answer

The subpar ones think they have a chance without levelling up

Manuelwe · Answer

What do you want them to think? She has nice tits or she looks ugly. It depends or he is straight or gay. Or what mood too.

robocop666 · Answer

Examining boobs and butt as they always do. Unaware everyone can see them.

dougeats · Answer

I imagine the actual color and size of the nipple under there

PeterLegg91 · Answer

Us guys check out women with smaller boobs too ;) and we think mmmmmmmmm ;)

MikeRJ · Answer

For me it is quite simple. I am appreciating her beauty.

Shy_Steve · Answer

They are thinking what you might look like naked, I thought Women knew this?

Professor-college · Answer

Well when I see a woman who looks amazing I keep thinking that whoever is enjoying intimacy with her is very lucky

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

Im sure there imagination id running wild. Do you like the attention?

Anonymous · Answer

They probably like you, that's what they think about.

Anonymous · Answer

They're trying to picture what you look like naked. That's what guys do.

Theguywhogoesnude · Answer

Lips, eyes, hair, etc. I just appreciate haha

Anonymous · Answer

Would anyone even notice boobs that small?

Caroline005 · Answer

How she look with her clothes on the floor.

Pterodon · Answer

“ I wonder what she looks like naked”

CubaPirate · Answer

Inappropriate sexual thoughts probably

beefcakebradybatson · Answer

Wonder if she'd let me club her?

Anonymous · Answer

Perverse thoughts unless they are gay or asexual

anmari2001 · Answer

nothing

MasterKS · Answer

imagining you without those clothes.

Crazzyyworld · Answer

Sex.

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