The answer to this is pretty complicated for both men and women.
Imagine you're looking at a clean, healthy golden retriever running in the sun. Do you think, "I want to run and play with that beautiful dog! I want to join her! What a fun companion and friend she'd make!"?
Imagine you're looking at a cake decorated with shimmering gems and lace. Do you think, "I want to own that cake, call it mine. I want to smell it, taste it. It's so special"?
Imagine you're looking at a brilliant sunset over the ocean beyond an interesting skyline. Do you think, "I want to see this every single day. I could not possibly get tired of this sight. How could I feel bad when seeing such beauty?"
Imagine you're looking at kind, loving grandmother. Do you think, "I can just tell she would be nice to me, love me, and make me a really good sandwich"?
It's like all of those things at once. That's what guys feel like when looking at women, of course to varying degrees of intensity. Part of all those feels also leads to sexual desire, but for the most part that's a consequence, not the reason for looking or the primary feeling.
Focusing on specific parts is probably no different for women. "Look, that's a nice arm. Good for her," or, "Dang, I bet it took her a while to get her hair looking that good." And, "Dat ass!"
Of course, this assumes he's checking her out because he likes what he sees. People look at people for various reasons too numerous to mention. What you think is "checking you out" might be him thinking, "That dress has orange flowers on it the color of my medication that I don't remember taking... oh crap." So with this assumption, it should be taken as a compliment. The alternative is twisting your mind into thinking that something that is rarely bad and mostly good is always suspect of being bad. Don't let a few apples ruin the bunch.
Generally its the same for everyone. When an opposite sex looks deeply at the other, there looking at everything and everything that makes you a women. Different to us. For specifically what, that depends on the indvidual.
For me, I look at a her hips move, how the way she walks, how juicy her booty is, how pretty her skin looks, curves, eyes, smiles, all of it really.
Of coures there is different thoughts, but thats based on the person. Any type of interaction is obviously a non verbal signal to you.
won't look away no matter what... Can either be very creepy like he's a psycho or deeply infatuated by what he sees. But really really won't look away, thats a little weird lol
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This depends massively on the guy in question, there is no one correct answer.
As for me, if I'm checking a girl out, it is either because I think she is attractive (but may not be attracted to her personally) or I am attracted to her (regardless of whether she is attractive or not). The thoughts going through my head are either "Wow, she looks really good" or some variant of me thinking about how I should tell her I am into her, respectively.
I'd say most guys look at the boobs when she's coming and her ass when she's leaving.
If he's smiling he's
liking what he's seeing and confident about letting you know
if he's emotionless
it's pretty difficult to read
and if he's smirking
he probably likes what he's seeing but may think you're below what he can get
At this point I'll remind you that these are just guesses.
I know I'm not thinking anything while I do it. I'm just looking blankly.
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