Do men ever stalk women they are interested in?

[Anonymous]

Do you guys ever stalk a woman you're interested in? Google her? Or test her using fake accounts to see if she's talking to other men?

[Anonymous]

Googling someone is stalking? Companies google and view people's social media profiles all the time for background checks etc. A lot of women google guys name to make sure he is not serial killer. I don't know I guess I am just old school and I like to use words with their proper definition.

People nowadays call someone who seems a little arrogant and cocky a narcissist and now people accuse someone of criminal activity for googling someones name? If he's breaking the law, following you home or hacking your profile then I think that would constitute as stalking. But I guess they changed the meaning of the word "stalking" just like the medical term "narcissist" I am just old school and see it as something serious not as something to casually accuse some of doing or being.

Like slandering someone and calling them a stalker someone for searching up "Kim Kardashians" on google seems absurd to me, but I the definition changed or something.

[DryGermanGuy]

I doubt most men have the time or patience for any elaborate circus. I know I haven't.

[Nikki1989]

Yes, regretfully, it is far too common.

[Anonymous]

I've only done what you described to one girl. I was very ashamed at first, but it normalized. Her behavior made that easier.

[Anonymous]

Google her, maybe. Test her? No. That's toxic behavior.

[Anonymous]

I've had a girls ex stalking me so all is possible incase she moves on

[Anonymous]

Not unless they are a criminal.

[Asker]

How would you even know unless you were searching 😉