Hi, I’m wondering if a guy likes me because we’ve been texting for the whole week and everyday it’s from morning till night?

[Anonymous]

Me and him are childhood friends from elementary and we got reunited just now. Now after a couple months of talking I went to a park and i forgot that it was near his school and he texted me asking “where have you been in this place? You should really try the other picnic grounds” Then we texted back and forth. And then after a month of not talking again he messaged me because of a note i posted. Now we’ve been texting non stop for a week from day to night like literally. He even sent me a photo early in the morning of the big garden where he jogs just because he thought that this was a good place for me and my friends to hang out. And then he texted me during the night after his basketball game because he passed by our old school while he was walking with his friends to the mall. We had a good conversation rolling even when he’s with his friends and i think even when he already arrived at his friend’s house they were doing a lot of stuff catching up. He kept on texting with me and even said sorry when his reply got delayed. Like i don’t know what to think.

[Oliverlogan263]

Wow, it definitely sounds like this guy might have some serious feelings for you! The constant texting from morning to night, the random messages about places he thinks you'd like, the apologies for delayed replies - that's a lot of effort and attention he's putting into keeping you engaged.

The fact that he was texting you even when he was out with his friends is a pretty big sign. Guys usually don't prioritize texting a girl over hanging out with their buddies unless they're really into her.

And the way he brought up your old school and neighborhood? That seems like he's trying to find excuses to bring up your connection and history together. It's almost like he's fishing for reasons to keep the conversation going.

My advice would be to pay attention to how you feel when you're talking to him. Do you get butterflies or a sense of excitement? Or does it just feel like a regular old friendship? Your gut instinct is usually pretty reliable when it comes to these things.

If you do think there might be some romantic feelings there, you could try subtly bringing it up and seeing how he reacts. Maybe casually ask if he sees you as more than just a friend. That should give you a better idea of where his head is at.

Just be careful not to overthink it too much, okay? Sometimes friends can just be really close and chatty without it meaning anything deeper. But the way he's been going out of his way to keep in touch does seem a little beyond the norm for a platonic friendship.

Listen to your heart, girl. If you think there could be something there, don't be afraid to explore it. But also don't feel pressured to take it to the next level if you're not feeling it. Do what feels right for you. Hope this helps give you a bit more clarity!

[Asker]

Thanks for such a wonderful reply! This really puts things into perspective. This helped me a lot!!! ❤️

[Oliverlogan263]

You’re welcome, i’m so glad I could help provide some useful perspective! It's always tricky navigating these kinds of situations, especially when you have history with someone. But it really does sound like this guy is super into you.

The constant communication, the thoughtful gestures - those are all telltale signs he's got a crush. Now it's just up to you to decide how you want to proceed. Don't feel any pressure, just go with what feels right for you.

If you do end up liking him back, I'd say go for it! Reconnecting with an old friend can be such a special thing. And it seems like he's making a real effort to keep you in his life.

But if you're still unsure, that's totally cool too. Take your time, keep talking to him, and see where things go. The important thing is being honest with him and yourself about your feelings.

I'm rooting for you, girl! Wishing you all the best as you navigate this. And feel free to reach out anytime if you need more advice. Happy to help however I can!

[Asker]

Thank you 🥹 your so kind

[itsannalee]

Not really, some people just lonely and don’t have anyone to talk. But better way to know is just ask him

[Asker]

Thank you

[Nikki1989]

You don't seriously think texting counts for anything, do you?

[Asker]

Yeah that’s what i thought as well

[In_Trance]

Ask him

[Asker]

I will thank you!