Do guys pine over girls (like girls do with guys) or do you move on pretty quickly?

[Anonymous]

A girl can pine over a guy they really like to the point of obsess a bit lol, but do guys do similar with girls or do they move in pretty quickly?

Do guys think about a girl they really like for a while even if you can’t be together at that point of time or do they move on quickly?

What about if you see that girl in future do you have feelings of attraction or have they completely gone?

[OneViewpoint]

It depends. A guy with self respect will accept the situation, move on relatively quickly and not look back. A guy with low self esteem and few alternatives may dwell on the loss and have trouble moving on.

Personally, I feel like once that decision to move on has been made by one of the two people in a relationship, the probability of reversing it is low and begging only diminishes the other person's respect for you. So it's likely pointless to try. You're better off looking for your future elsewhere. Even if she comes back on her own at some point, whatever you had is broken. The magic is gone. She showed you how she really felt. Listen to her. Polite and cold is all she's gonna get.

[BadApple69]

I can’t speak for other guys but I move on very fast. If a girl doesn’t want me or I don’t want her I’m off looking for the next girl. I’m too old to waste time.

[Anonymous]

For the most part, I can move on very quickly. I've only had issues with moving past one girl. Despite everything, my feelings and attraction persist.

[RedInnocent69]

That’s a definite, sometimes. I pine, but I’m also sensitive and sweet 😉

[jahaims]

Its a personality thing not gender

[MasterKS]

Dudes are quick mostly.