Do guys ever grow out of the liking the same girl phase?

[surfthewave4]

You know in adolescent years there one girl a number of males and his friends admire. As men do they mature out of group admiration for one lady?

How does this attraction for one girl start?

And why do they like her?

[Anonymous]

I am in university and guys still have that one girl who every guy likes. I started to talk this girl because of how pretty she is, but she is also smart and fun to be with. A few days later I am sitting there talking to her and my friend sees this he gets jealous and comes to talk to her. This happens several times with different guys.

All these guys like her so much mostly based on looks but also appearance and personality. They say she is a 10 a compliment that guys never give . She is also unattainable has had boyfriend for long time and people love things they can't have. I have a feeling she knows that many guys are attracted to her too. Even though she knows she plays it down for her own reasons, and it adds to the mystery.

so basically the short answer is jealousy, guys will use there friends to get an in with a girl. None can have her and your left with a group of admirers.

[Bluemonk]

Theres always going to be a general consensus of who "the best" is.

Most people will like this person.

I don't think its much to think about, to me its sort of like you're comparing tons of people like one person to girls deciding to go to the bathroom together or something haha.

If a person is amazing, a lot of people in their social circle [a guy and his friends] are going to admire them.

Its that simple to me.

[Anonymous]

of course. as people grow up and mature, their tastes change

[Reiki_Z]

well as we mature we realize we don't just like one girl but all girls

and that one girl that all the boys liked still is liked but some have just moved on to go love other women and still have feelings for that same girl

but they probly only liked that girl cause she was easy to catch but hard to be kept ?

idk tho she could have just been super sweet

and they liked her cause no one ever really had her

[Anonymous]

right now my world revolves around one girl,i just try to impress her ,just love to hang around her,when she stares at me I feel so happy,when I talk to her its like she made my day ,that much crazy I am though we both are atttracted to each other,we behave exactly opposite,reason we have age difference