Lack of interest from a guy?

[Anonymous]

Hi guys! I have been seeing this guy for 4 months, our dates are great and he uses to initiate contact most of the times and proposes dates. Lately he has been taking a bit longer to respond to my texts. After dates, we usually text each other when we get home. On Friday we saw each other and we had a great date. However, he dropped me at my house and didn’t text he when he got home. Now it’s been three days (it’s Monday) and he hasn’t texted. Should I be worried? When he reaches out (if he does) should I answer to his text or do I take this as a hint he is not interested and ignore? Other guys I have dated in the past were texting me consistently every day, especially after a date and I this is making me feel like I am unimportant to him. What are your thoughts? Thanks.

[fish5505_87]

I Hope he hasn't, because you seem really into him, and he makes you happy. Maybe, you reached the point, 4 months were, he feels secure, and does not need to text as much? Sometimes in the beginning, your so love struck, you expend a lot of energy on those cute little things, that gets exhausting sometimes. Maybe send a text and see what happens. Good luck!

[Asker]

Thanks for your answer, let’s see 🤞 I will update

[fish5505_87]

Thanks

[In_Trance]

When did you last sleep with him?

[Asker]

We tried to sleep together for the first time about three weeks ago, but we couldn’t because he couldn’t get it up, maybe because we were drinking alcohol? We had some beers. So then, we didn’t sleep together at the end