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I don't know but this is the second time it has happened. But last night, I was talking to a very handsome tall fireman who came into my apartment. I was insanely attracted to him but I tried keeping it under wraps. Suddenly as I was speaking, his face turned very happy, looking at me with a very happy countenance. I have no idea why he looking at me happily. Everyone in my city is grim / serious looking usually. There is a leak in my home and its not fixed. Then he begins talking to me in a very soft, tender tone. Do you think he kinda sensed I was attracted to him?
This also happened while I was talking to another plumber who I was very attracted to. His tone of voice just got super soft while talking to me.
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You are clearly projecting your gooey feelings onto the situation. He 'speaks softly'? Wtf does that even mean?
you don't even know what speaking softly means? is English your native language?
You aren't getting what I'm saying. The volume someone speaks in is unique to every person, and also varies depending on setting. To think it is tied to some sort of attaction is absurd.
because it has happened in the past. Its the 3rd time its happened. Usually when I'm really attracted to a guy, he can tell. And somehow I always notice his voice changes as he speaks to me.
Okay, how do you know a guy can tell?
If you want to believe it means something be my guest, but I would look for something more obvious.
because i am very good at observing facial expressions and body language. I can tell if a guy is rejecting me just via body language and facial expression. This time, I just found his facial expression to be a bit odd. He seemed to look happy for no reason. The rest of his firemen gang were grim and serious looking, just like everyone else who lives in my city
He looked happy 'for no reason'... okay... it's possible he was in a good mood about something that had nothing to do with you... ... anyway...
Good luck.
@spartan55
thats certainly possible. but having done this for 14+ years, I have developed an intuition. its more so the sudden change in countenance while talking to me than him walking in already looking happy before we began talking, that means something.
You've 'done this for 14:years' Done what? I think you are taking all these body language cues et al WAY too seriously.
Body language means everything. It Especially matters when what is shown on someone's face contradicts what they say. Words mean nothing, facial expression is everything. This is how I am able to ALWAYS know how someone feels about me.
Since I have been doing it for so long, I am able to see things that other lesser experienced people do not see.
How often do your xonclusionx not align with reality?
Body, language is, not only highly subjective, it isn't supposed to to be used to make to be the basis of valid conclusionss. To support them YES. But to base behavioral conclusions is not valid.
@spartan55
Body language is only subjective to the inexperienced.
When you've got 14+ years under my belt, I'm more of an expert. I read better than the vast majority of people.
I mean that could mean anything
It's not enough to say he knew or didn't