People who gym?

[Anonymous]

this is mostly for guys…

when you guys like a girl in the gym, how do you act around her?

i got this crush on a guy but every time i look his way he doesn’t look at me, but when he thinks im not looking, he’ll quickly look at me. then he shows up w/ his friend who looks my way, we had eye contact for a few seconds. but my crush has his back turned to me at all times.

why?

[ProbablyClueless]

Unfortunately, this is a situation where the sisterhood has shot itself in the foot.

I might mouth the word "hello" to her or smile, but I mostly just keep myself focused on my workout.

Other women have made such a stink about guys at the gym on social media that any half-way respectful guy just avoids women at the gym to make sure he's not making anyone uncomfortable.

[Asker]

i really hate that sisterhood, i was never one of those girls and i say it everyday that they ruined it for women like me. he’s afraid to look at me ….

[ProbablyClueless]

The sane ladies always seem to pay the price for this bullshit...

Yeah, unfortunately, when you reward someone for starting shit with people for attention, there are always assholes who take it too far and ruin it for everyone else.

[Asker]

well in your opinion, the friend looking my way while my crush doesn’t look at me at all… is he interested? is his friend there to be a wingman to see if the feelings are mutual?

[ProbablyClueless]

Based on what you've written here, the friend's behavior is probably more that they've noticed you looking at him. Your crush might find you fairly cute though.

[Joshydavid25]

I just usually workout.. And maybe I might glance.. I tried to talk to one girl at the gym, but it just didn't budge.. So, I mostly stick to working out and sorry of do what your guy is doing..

[bowenw]

I make a habit of not looking at girls at the gym other than quick glances, as I know people can feel intimidated or self-conscious in that environment.

[spartan55]

Looking at you does not necessarily mean he is interested.

[Asker]

and looking into my eyes and then looking away means what? along with his friend watching me

[spartan55]

Probably attracted which shouldn't be conflated with interest.

[Danny_dan92]

I act like she’s not there, because the whole point of me being in the gym is to workout.




I’m not there to get numbers

[Asker]

that wasn’t the question

[Danny_dan92]

Yes tf it was? You asked how do you act when you see a girl you like. I answered it

[In_Trance]

This means nothing. Guys are there to workout and leave.
It's not a singles club.
When there's slim pickings, guys we'll look at whatever's available. That doesn't mean they're interested it means they're bored

[Shiprex]

I do my normal activities and ignore her. I value my membership and don't want to give any excuse for losing it.

[serious]

This is a behavior of a typical shy guy. I am sure he finds you attractive as well.