Trans or femboy?

[DailyConfusion]

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So i am a femboy and i am gay but i have been conflicted and hav been questioning about my gender. I wanna transition to female but i wanna stay as a femboy, but it contradicts each other, and im scared of growing up and being like a 30, or 40 trying to be a femboy and it not working out ( I deeply apologise if i hav offended people in their 30, 40s or older, it was not my intention) anyway, if I transition to female then i will lose my label as ‘ femboy ‘ because im no longer a boy because i’ll be a girl instead. And girl dressing up all feminine is just normal these days…ive been battling this thought for a very very very long time. i hate that im turning into a man as i grow older and i wanna become a girl but again if i do then i’ll lose myself as a femboy and just be a girl.

All advice and guidance would be greatly appreciated thank you for your time.

[Screenwriter]

OK, there's all kinds of transitioning. There is hormonal transitioning, there is surgical transitioning, which is permanent and irreversible, unlike hormonal transitioning, which ends when you stop taking hormones.

And there is simply dressing as the other sex and keeping all of your equipment as is. That is simple transvestism. However, as men become older, as I"m sure you're experiencing now, they grow more and coarser body and facial hair, or experience male pattern baldness, so it's difficult for you to maintain your status as femboy.

If you're confused about how you'd like to look and experience life, you might get sexual transitional counseling and explain what your goals are to the counselor. Being trans means there is room for being as you want to be along the spectrum. That doesn't mean being a 1, all male, or a 10 all female.

Sounds like what would satisfy you would be to be a 5: a male without a lot of the coarser male features.

What you can do is get electrolysis to remove excess body and facial hair to retain a more youthful and feminine appearance. But what you have to realize is that no male stays a "boy" forever. You may have to be satisfied with being a fem-man.
It doesn't sound like you want to be a woman, truthfully.

It sounds like you want to occupy a space between. And that is completely valid. But find a recommended counselor who agrees with your goals and supports your achieving them. And find out precisely where you want to be and work toward that.

Have friends and family behind you, too.

[SueShe]

I have never really understood what all those "in-between" sexes are all about. To me, there are basically only 2 sexes and those are the ones you were assigned at birth. Either you were born having a penis or a vagina.

Biologically, there are typically two sexes: male and female. However, there are also intersex individuals, who are born with a combination of male and female biological characteristics. But that is where it ends from a point of view of sexes.

Gender, on the other hand, is a social construct and refers to an individual's personal sense of identity as male, female, both, neither, or somewhere in between.

Now, you seem to make a big fuss about age. There is no need and you do whatever you want, as long as you don't harm anyone. Whether dressing up in female clothes for a male or the other way round for a female is something normal nowadays, I am not qualified to answer that question.

Whatever you do, you will never be what you were not at birth. It is just like applying makeup on a face with blemishes. The blemishes will stay once you remove that makeup.

[seeyounexttuesday]

you can't transition to a female. You'll be an ugly dude in a wig.

[LauraJ00]

Why are you so attached to labels ‘femboy’? Be what you want to be with worrying about what you’ll be labeled. Label yourself.
Though my personal opinion is that you should remain the gender that you are.

[Pterodon]

So you want to be a hermaphrodite?

[spartan55]

Lol...😂 😂 That'll fix everything...