Transmasculine Femboy?

[JordanRattyRat]

I'm a Transmasculine Femboy Demi-Boy
Would people even like me for being A Transmasculine Femboy
Google what those words mean separately and then add them together it doesn't make much sense
I'm Panromantic but would ANYONE like me for being like that
I'm Femboy cause all my friends are girls and I have a lot of sisters and never see my two little brothers
Do people even like somone who is a bottom (guy) that was stuck in a girl body but that doesn't make them any less a guy
But is it the same me being a bottom (By bottom I mean personality I would rather cuddle and just be close to my partner cause if I like them they probably make me feel safe cause I have really bad anxiety and sometimes anxiety attacks) (I don't do the nasty)

No cause people aren't actually like that nobody wants to sit there and cuddle all day

Yes they would if they are supportive and nice and are the right type

Other (comment)

[Anonymous]

I'm having a really hard time with the logical gymnastics of people who hate labels being so adamant about labeling themselves, and then getting upset about people not accepting those labels in the way they want.

Why throw this word-salad bullshit around and then try to claim that it's something it's not? If you don't want people judging your book before they read it, then don't put a title on the cover. If you were writing an autobiography, would you title it "transmasculine femboy demiboy" or would you just put your name? Would you read someone else's if they titled it "straight masculine alpha-male"?

Labels exist for the purpose of categorization. So stop labeling yourself if you don't want to be judged on what category you're in

[genericname85]

transmasculine femboy... what the fuck. i preferred the time when people were just gay. why is nobody gay anymore? is it a competition for the most complex sexuality?

[JordanRattyRat]

People are like books
Not simple
Every individual person is like a whole small school library to read things about one person
There are a lot of people
And don't you know what gay guys are and there's top and bottom -_-
Even if someone doesn't do the nasty they can still be one of those cause it's just a way of describing somones personality

[genericname85]

people aren't like books in my opinion. they're monkeys. they are stupid and predictable. i don't exclude myself from this. i know gay guys have top and bottom but i don't give a flying fuck what 2 consenting adults do behind closed bedroom doors, cause that is none of my fucking business.

in order to have a civil conversation, we need easily distinguishable terms. that's the point of having a language in the first place. the point of language is to reduce complexity to be able to conceptualize and navigate the world around you. nobody is helped by making simple topics like sexuality impossibly complex with words that only the person using it can really understand...

[genericname85]

like if i'm asking someones sexual preference, which on a side note i never do: i wanna know if they like dick or vagina. not what sort of body part of which other gender they prefer to stick in which orifice of their body or vice versa and as what fantasy being they prefer feeling like while doing that...

[JordanRattyRat]

I don't feel that way towards anyone not humans animals not even anime characters
I only feel ROMANTIC attraction

[genericname85]

i really don't care about knowing more about the current state of societal perversion and degeneracy. i agree with letting evryone live their sexuality if that doesn't violate the rules of consent. but i disagree with having every sexual pathology that exsits today massively exposed in the media with forced acceptance or else you're a nazi... it's not good for our children to see and learn. i don't think they are helped by being taught those things.

[genericname85]

i think generally speaking we should turn back to acknowlegde that most biological men are masculine and like men and most biological females are women and are feminine. not ignoring that there's exceptions but also not acting as if those exceptions should be the social standard.

[genericname85]

*most biological men are masculine and like women and most biological females are feminine and like men... damn it... see how this fuck confuses the heck out of people? xD

[JordanRattyRat]

Why can't people just be born in the right body
People are hated for being in the wrong body and called the names of whoever's body they are in

[JordanRattyRat]

It's stupid people are expected to feel sexual attraction to people

[JordanRattyRat]

This is 2021

[genericname85]

if i state the fact that like 99% of people are cisgender (to use your new age terminology), that is not a normative judgement. it's not saying "people should be cis gender". it's saying "people are cis gender". what i'm saying is we should not expose children to morbid atypical perversions. because believe it or not that can fuck a child up quite bad.

now if a child is just born that way, which i won't deny happens, then they of course should get all the support... but i don't think that we should expose "normal" children to this, cause it is evident that this makes children develop perversions, atypical and deviant behaviors and even psychological conditions.

[genericname85]

like celebrating sexual deviation and atypical or even morbid sexualities is not a good thing. demonizing isn't either but well... let's keep this shit private. that's all i'm saying.

[Anonymous]

Another panromantic asexual person can, why should they care what genetals you have. You can't be the only one in this world :D
but reality is probably that there are few who have it like you. I'd look at some online communities to find like minded. Sorry, I don't know anyone personally, but I am sure you can do some research to find it.

[JordanRattyRat]

Omg Yas wanna be friends do you have discord or Snapchat my Snapchat username is jordan23334456 and my discord username is *Animal Boy*#0027
Lets be friends 😭

[Opinion Owner]

haha cute, but I am sorry, I am not here to get new friends, just to give my opinion on various matters.

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

I don’t know, I’m sure there’s someone out there for you…

[JordanRattyRat]

Yea that's what my sister says and I always thinks she finds me annoying for never being with someone for long but thank you anyway

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

Well, what’s the reason for you not being with someone for long?

[JordanRattyRat]

It's usually different but usually they don't really act weird or anything at first and then when we ac are dating they are like really creepy and it just makes me uncomfortable but I don't know how to tell someone that and it's not like people ever care
Especially the old creeps I live with
They don't care AT ALL

[In_Trance]

Stop...

[Lucy-123]

That's not how it works idiot

[JordanRattyRat]

People are only whatever their soul is
Not body
Their gender is what they are on the inside in their soul
So it doesn't have to be what people want or expect
And no it doesn't have to be simple
Just people all together with people all having different personalities and looking different and being different people everyone is like their own book and people are definitely a big book to read it would take at least a entire week no breaks to read and know about the person and still there would be more details

[Juxtapose]

Man femboys are hot as fuck, you are missing out if you don't have sex.

[VanillaVilla]

I’m definitely late, but you gotta remember that no matter who you are, there’s someone out there who will appreciate you and love you.

[Anonymous]

mental health issues are not sexy. nor dateable

[JordanRattyRat]

It's anxiety and no I don't care if it's "sexy"
I'm just gonna stick to what my friends say that I just haven't found the right person yet

[Opinion Owner]

XD XD sure kid. thats your issue.
The right person doesn't exist cuz nobody wants a fucked up cunt for a partner. eww

[KatherineJ]

You’re a what?

[JordanRattyRat]

Google both of those words and add them together
I'm a bottom -_- AND NOPE IT DOESN'T MEAN I WILL DO THE NASTY
IT IS JUST A WAY OF DESCRIBING SOMONES PERSONALITY

[KatherineJ]

I think it’s silly. If you need to describe yourself in that way, you put way too much time into it. Sorry, but just be you and you’ll be fine. Without the made up labels.

[JordanRattyRat]

Then I'm a boy
Plain and simple I'm just a boy 🤣

[KatherineJ]

Congratulations! Now then, just be you and good things will happen if you let them.

[JordanRattyRat]

Exept
Society can't accept people for who they are and especially the people I live with
And Its not like I can get away from them I will die being homeless
And I don't have and real family other than people I see as family
Cause they support me
And here where I'm stuck (transphobic homophobic hell) I am HIT for being myself
So I have to be a they also

[KatherineJ]

Find a job, and go somewhere else. Sorry, but you are 24 years old, so you can live your best life independently.

[JordanRattyRat]

No I can't
And no I'm not 24 where did you get that number from

[JordanRattyRat]

That's just my favorite number other than eight billion

[KatherineJ]

So you lied about your age….

[JordanRattyRat]

I am not telling my age online there are creepy people in the world but no that doesn't mean I'm a kid
It just means I'm not sharing that type of information
I will to my friend's tho but anyone on this app no
The people on this app are like robots or people that use the dark web

[KatherineJ]

Well, if you are over 18, then get a job, get your own place and live your best life. Whatever that life happens to be. But don’t get distracted by a bunch of silly made up labels.

[JordanRattyRat]

1. I'm not over 18
2. It's real

[KatherineJ]

1) ok
2) no, it’s a bunch of silliness.

[JordanRattyRat]

2 it is how people express themself