Why am I always a target?

[Anonymous]

This happens to me a couple of times where a guy will come off super into me but after a while will friendzone me mid-convo by calling me his sister or buddy then flirt with me again later… I used to have a sexual relationship with a guy who would call me his sister and friend sometimes BRO. Though he was interested in me first.

A guy at my job is around me the whole time and he’s always flirting with me and play fighting instead of working. Since the day he started he’s been around me all day and I never spoke to him first. One day he called me his buddy. I started to learn that he’s just around me to waste time. But why was I the first girl he targeted.

[Fanfare690]

Sometimes men play those games and sister you because they want you to fight after them and chase after them. LAME

[MannMitAntworten]

This is a thing? I have never known a man to employ this approach. Not even the younger men.

[MannMitAntworten]

You might just have one of those friendly approachable personas is all. As for a guy you had been sleeping with calling you his sister … that’s unusual.

[MannMitAntworten]

…. and who calls a woman, “Bro”?

[jahaims]

You come off as easy to use. Which makes sense because you aren't even introspective enough to notice what is going on.

[MasterKS]

(I used to have a sexual relationship with a guy who would call me his sister) thats something i hear for the first time and sounds like you are easy with duded.

[Josef_89]

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