Is he not interested?

[Anonymous]

so I like this guy who works at the supermarket I approached him today saying that I like his tattoo but he was stocking and said thank you very quickly he didn't even look at me does that mean he's not interested?

[NoDecision]

Means he was busy working. Could also mean he is already spoken for.

[Anonymous]

He might not want to do anything to get him in trouble at work. You are going to have to be upfront and give him your number or ask him out on a date.

[bowenw]

He may be shy. Next time try asking him something about it that requires him to say more.

[Asker]

naw i give up its too much

[MasterKS]

You disturbing in his work, meet him outside of the work zone, he will show you all the tattoos he got. LOL

[Asker]

lmao dkm

[MasterKS]

@asker mhiatshhi.

[spartan55]

You're timing couldn't be any worse...🙄

[Asker]

y'all are killing me lol

[spartan55]

It's true. You want help, right?

[Asker]

no i understand what you're saying im just not used to approaching men this is new to me lol

[spartan55]

Well good for you for approaching him, but he still has no clue you like him.

[Asker]

but he didn't look at me doesn't that mean he's not interested?

[spartan55]

No, he was at work, and it probably caught him off guard. I wouldn't take that as a gauge of his interest at all. Like I said... bad timing.

[Asker]

last week we locked eyes and he did a double take i forgot to mention that. but i was so nervous that day i didn't say anthing

[spartan55]

Are you really 30?

[Asker]

yea why?

[spartan55]

You act like you're 15, but it doesn't matter. Next time you seem him ask him for his number so you can get some coffee (or whatever) sometime.

[Asker]

yea i now lol i have really bad anxiety and in my culture men do the approaching so that's what i'm used too

[spartan55]

Fair enough, what culture is that?

[Asker]

my family is Jamaican

[spartan55]

Okay. So what are you going to do?

[Asker]

i give up too much pressure

[spartan55]

Oh come on! Just ask him for his number. The worse he can do is say no. And if he does, so what?

[seeyounexttuesday]

Are you hot?

[Asker]

yes why?

[seeyounexttuesday]

if he's not gay he's interested.