How do you know a guy isn't interested in you anymore?

[Anonymous]

If a guy messaged you and became distant and formal during the conversation does that mean he isn't interested in you?

[ChicoFromThe305]

Maybe he's busy, there's many things that can prevent someone from going on their phone

[MannMitAntworten]

If his approach to you changes it is a good indicator his sentiments towards you have also changed. It is the same way as with women.

[Anonymous]

Not necessarily. Maybe he isn't good at that form of communication.

[gstephens91]

He'll stop paying attention to you.

[Asker]

He still looks at my stories though?

[spartan55]

Why does he have to message you first?

[Hellraiser1984]

Probably. Go find someone else.

[Asker]

So why would he message me in the first place?

[Asker]

I would also understand if I said something that pushed him away and made him lose interest but I didn't

[Hellraiser1984]

Maybe he's trying to find the words to tell you he's done or maybe he's just wanting friends with benefits. If you did no wrong it's on him. If he's done then be done with him. Maybe you deserve better.

[Asker]

Maybe but it's like he used an excuse to message me? I didn't message him at all just left him alone

[Asker]

Either way I think maybe its best to be done with him no point wasting my time with a man like that

[Hellraiser1984]

Move on.

[wkhan_87]

Ask him seriously