Men, when a man says he wants to be with you, but he's not where he want to be in life... does it really mean he doesn't wanna be with you?

[Anonymous]

The guy I've been talking to for 3 months just told me this. And I'm torn on if I should let him go or not. I know he was going through things (he lost his job recently) and I understand that is a priority.. but how do I know he's not just keeping me around for convenience til someone else he actually wants comes around..

Updates

11 mo

Correction; we've been going on dates and hanging out. Not just "talking"

[cherrybomb24]

A guy told me this multiple times and turned out he was putting his notifications on silent those days because he was seeing and sleeping with another girl.. do not let that be you girl lol 😂

[Ariesman81]

No. It means he doesn't think he can provide for you the way he thinks he should. He's insecure. If he's trying to find another job and not getting bogged down by depression, then he's doing what he should be.

[spartan55]

'talking for three months?' that's a mistake. 😂 I will bet anything nothing happens... .

[Asker]

"Dating" we hang out, and have went onl dates.

[spartan55]

Okay, that's not what you said. Sounds like he enjoys the free sex and is trying to talk you into friends with benefits.

[HollyK21]

Yeah, that’s a copout. Don’t waste anymore of your time.

[slatyb]

Ignore what he said. If he wanted to be with you, he would be with you.

[Anonymous]

Men are pretty blunt.
Take it at face value.
He. Is. Not. Interested.