Do guys like women who is feisty?

[Anonymous]

I'm getting to know this guy and I think I may be clocking him a little too much. To me, I'm coming off bold and feisty and standing on business. I called him out on his dry text, him not taking accountability, and deflecting. He usually just brush it off but hmmm... do guys prefer women who have self respect and bold or do they prefer women who are more soft?

lol thanks im very new to the dating scene and he;s the first guy im talking to.

[Anonymous]

Depends on feistiness to love ratio. I hate the term "boss b****" if you refer to yourself as a boss b****" I'm done, like now. There is nothing wrong with showing a level of feistiness so long as you're able to mix in a good ration of "I really dig you". MOST are not very good about making clear thier level of interest. So if a woman appears to be critical of him and nothing else, then not many QUALITY men are going to tolerate that for very long.

[Asker]

not that type that you're referring to.
for example, i told him i couldn't go to sleep and he said "your minds on me" and i told him he hasn't done anything to make me feel that way and he said "i know" and changes the topic.

clocking him and then him not even trying to prove his interest

[Opinion Owner]

It's all the same hun.

[Anonymous]

Apparently I like them more fiesta, but a mixture of both is good.

[ChicoFromThe305]

You must be Latina, just guessing 😂

[Asker]

no lol and you didn't answer the question.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Patience, I was gonna answer, but I wasn't going to waste my time if you didn't reply to my bait question first, now I know you genuinely need the help and you won't just disappear and not read my awesome response, there's three type of dudes, those that don't like feisty women, those who can handle and deal with feisty women and those that love fiesty women, this man seems like the middle one, thing is it can also be that he's never had a fiesty woman before so he can be either one, you'll just have to keep being your feisty self and find out 💀

[Asker]

he's very dry with me so i just assume he also has a roster of women lol and i'm not on the top of it. although he did deny and said he's not talking to anyone else.

i texted him i couldn't go to sleep and he said "your minds on me" and i told him he hasn't done anything to make me feel that way and he said "i know" and changes the topic.

clocking him and then him not even trying to prove his interest, I don't know if i should just drop him

[ChicoFromThe305]

I believe it seems quite dry for someone that's supposedly interested, I think you might be right that he has a list, I don't see why you being the only one and his replies being that dry would add up, either that or he's just a dry texter in general and texts like he only has three fingers, I think if you are going to drop him, be certain he has a chick stampede first before doing so cause it's possible he doesn't

[Asker]

lol thanks bro!

[Asker]

i called him out on it and his excuse was that he was working lol which again is excuses cause i work too and i put in effort

[ChicoFromThe305]

Well you see, you are putting things together and stuff already, you'll get your answers in no time lol

[Iron_Man]

I think you did a great job

[Asker]

thank you

[Iron_Man]

You’re very welcome

[BarryLiverstone]

He lied to you