My boyfriendis hairy and smells all the time which I am not really keen?

[Anonymous]

I understand everyone has body smell. But his is really strong. And not shaving is not helping it. I have told him more than couple of times to shave in all kind of tones- romantic, sexy, childish, rude, fought, etc. But he doesn't seem to change. What can I go, girlypops.

POV: he is a very sweet person, working on himself and very thoughtful about me.

[Tamera952]

You got to give it to him straight, and tell him how much of a problem it is for you. But at the same time, convey that you’re doing this because of all of his positive attributes. You care, so it’s from a place of love, but this is becoming an issue that he needs to be aware of. I would be having to do the same, because I feel ya—I would become tired trying to drop hints, or suggest this or that—and smelling bad is not something I could tolerate for very long. That is such a mood killer.
At a bare minimum, if a daily shower, oral hygiene, deodorant, etc. doesn’t do the trick, then maybe it’s a medical problem—but he needs to do better. He needs to respect himself in order to respect you. Making sure his body is clean is the least he can do.
I wish you luck!

[NoDecision]

I assume you mean down south. Just get him some more breathable underwear so there is more ventilation downstairs. It is usually sweat that can't evaporate and get out that causes these smells. Cleaning up after sex will help too. Nothing that stinks more below than decomposing semen. 😣🤢

[integrale77]

It may be a medical problem he probably needs to see a doctor for advice... about the smells... Being hairy is his choice where is it he is hairy you have problems with?

[bowenw]

You may have to give him an ultimatum about shaving and hygiene to get him to clean up his act.

[Tamera952]

100%!

[Anonymous]

I’d breakup. There’s only so much nagging and prodding you can do before he gets offended by you trying to change him. I had this issue years ago with a guys terrible breath. Such a good guy otherwise so obviously I wanted it to work but hygiene was not his priority and I couldn’t deal with it anymore. Now I’m married to someone I would’ve never met or thought I could meet if I hadn’t left that guy.

[Mpodere]

You should use an almost joking approach that, however, spurs him to take care of his hygiene
I had a girl do that with me, it happened for two different reasons but mo incentivized me to improve myself

[Staximus]

Just tell him to take a shower everyday and use soap and deodorant. If that doesn't work then it's his diet.

[Anonymous]

Get him some deodorant

[NoDecision]

Deodorant does nothing for the causes of pubic smell.

[slatyb]

Doesn't he shower?