Girls, any good self defense techniques?

[AnneTheLady]

There’s this guy at my job and he stares at my boobs and he’s been getting touchier lately and when I try to tell people they just refuse to care so if he ever decides to do something bad what are some things I can do to defend myself?

[518aminthemorning]

Tbh; just call it out to him straight up. Make him uncomfortable by pointing out exactly what he’s doing and exactly how it makes you feel. Easier said than done; but if this is a situation where nobody is else is willing to help then you need to take matters into your into your own hands.

[On_cloud_wine]

Stop giggling and flirting and acting naive and tell him to fuck off. Otherwise get HR involved

[AnneTheLady]

They won’t do anything and I tried telling him that but it didn’t work

[On_cloud_wine]

Yeah fucking right miss. xper level 1

[Ben9500]

Do you both still work there? Might be awkward

[AnneTheLady]

@Ben9500 Yeah sadly but he hasn’t messed with me

[JohnBellagio96]

If he touches you without your consent, just give him a swift kick to the balls. He will drop like a sack of potatoes. I've never seen a guy withstand a good shot to the nuts. I drop even from playful nut taps.

[PirateMike12]

ooooooohh.. yeah a kick the nuts will do it!
That shit hurts, listen to this guy. Because as someone who has been hit there, it fuckin sucks.

[jahaims]

It's not real. Unless you are a pro mma fighter the average guy will fuck you up.

[AnneTheLady]

Fighting not the point I want to just distract him long enough with pain so that I can run away

[Lesson82]

Then the best way to give him maximum pain is actually fake like you want a hug and the moment he comes in for it ram your knee right into his balls and the good thing about doing it this way is you can knee him 2 or 3 or if you are close to a wall you can push up against it so he can't dropped to floor and then you can continue kneeing him as many times as you want 😲 You will definitely get your message across but yell out don't touch me so everyone else can see how easily took care of him lol. I doubt he will ever want to go back to work after you humiliated him or if he does he will need a couple of days off to heal and then he will be limping for a little bit because knees to the balls are the most painful and it leaves you in pain for days. lol.

[Lothar13278]

With a bad boy it's simple - grab, twist and then squeeze with all the strength you can find in yourself. If you hold on tight, add some jerking. Even a really big bad boy will immediately lose any thoughts of hurting you and will only be interested in the hellish pain of his testicles. And usually within 10 seconds he will fall into shock and subsequently unconscious. I have been a self-defense instructor for over 20 years. You can believe me, this is how it works

[Alia_Czechgirl]

Harassment at work is a complex issue (I know something about it myself - I'm in the military). Of course, it depends on the specific job and the form of the harassment. Is it sexual or something else? Publicly or privately. There are different ways to react. Personally, I would recommend that you react publicly. If he touches you in front of your colleagues, slap him and verbally warn him so that everyone can see and hear it. At the same time, definitely discuss it with your superiors.
And if that doesn't work and he continues to be more aggressive, even beyond the limits of polite behavior, feel free to choose vigorous physical self-defense. As already written here, a kick in the balls is not a universal salvation, but it can solve a lot of problems. Any normal man will avoid you in a wide circle after such a reaction from you - they remember well who knocked them nuts and are careful not to repeat it ;-)

[AnneTheLady]

okay, thank you!

sadly he did try to touch me one day and I had to kick him.. it was the only way I knew how to get him to back off and it worked, he hasn’t bothered me since tho so it worked!

[Alia_Czechgirl]

My life experience is exactly like that. Even the biggest dude, when he gets a "jink" "jink" from you on his bells, will be careful from then on to not let it happen again. ;-)

[AnneTheLady]

yeah, it’s a good thing they hang I guess

[Paige2006]

@AnneTheLady Ouch!! It's funny how one hard kick to a guy's balls will do that!

[Alia_Czechgirl]

@Paige2006 My experience is clear - his head may not remember the pain, but his balls certainly do. So far, every guy who has gotten it from me has kept a respectful distance afterwards.

[Paige2006]

Wow, how many guys have you kick down there?

[Alia_Czechgirl]

@Paige2006 I don't really count them. But there have been a few. That's clear. In the male world where I work, I sometimes needed to define my boundaries

[Paige2006]

I agree with you

[FunkyMonkee]

Verbally, you can say, "I've already GOT ONE asshole in my panties! I don't NEED another!!"
If he gets VERY overly-physical, using the bottom and center of your foot, drive it into the outer side of his knee pushing the one knee sideways towards the other. This will instantly drop him to the floor and he won't be able to chase you for a good long time!
Under work conditions if he's just a bit too grabby, if he tries to, grab him firmly by the offending wrist putting pinching pressure on each side of the wrist point and twist his arm towards his shoulder. Tell him to stop or you'll kick him so hard, he'll have a permanent pink hairy necktie and he'll be able to sing castratto for the rest of his life!!
I know this is t. v. and at least some of it is pretend but, take a few lessons from Mrs. Peel. She's one bad ass that takes shit from NO ONE!!

https://www.youtube.com/embed/9WoxvsFhoWc

[Nikki1989]

You tell him to fuck off. Simples!

[AnneTheLady]

I have but it never works. My friends have said I should just kick him in the jewels if worse comes to worst but I feel that’s too violent and I don’t wanna follow through with that. Besides would it even work? I imagine they guard them well y’know.

[Loverofwisdom]

crouch down and punch his nuts very hard. kicking requires some skill so punch his nuts hard more than once if you need to

[Ben9500]

Ouch

[AnneTheLady]

Sadly, I had to kick him in the balls a while back but it worked!

[JohnBellagio96]

@AnneTheLady Yeah a kick in the balls never fails unless you miss. You should add me

[sahibtheking]

balls are way too fragile to be attacked they are just bare eggs dangling.

[lujeucau]

Really?

[alexR123]

How long did it incapacitate him for?

[alexR123]

Personally I think that a punch to the balls is probably not your best option especially if you have to crouch down because you leave yourself open to be hit. A kick or knee will be more painful and more safe

[bowenw]

If your boss or HR will not help, consider taking a basic self-defense course.

[AnneTheLady]

thanks for replying! and yeah, I’ve taken self defense classes, but I had to kick this guy in the nuts unfortunately.

He got…. “Handsy.”

[bowenw]

Hopefully that stopped him from doing it to you and hopefully all other women going forward.

[AnneTheLady]

hopefully

[AliceGregory]

In this situation the best defense would be to talk to HR.

[TinTan88]

You know.. go for the nuts if you need to. I guess depending on the level of threat. Go for a shove and escalate. Carry mace!

[lujeucau]

Really?

[TinTan88]

@lujeucau what would you do?

[lujeucau]

I don't know 🤷

[ashish804]

pepper spray would be easy one

[AnneTheLady]

Yes that is one that I thought about.

[ashish804]

yeah its the easiest

[Staximus]

Get the one the police carry, not the cheap bullshit one

[AnneTheLady]

@Staximus okay I’ll make sure

[Staximus]

And tell the guy to leave you alone. If that doesn't work you can call the cops or do it the old way, have a guy kick his ass.

[AnneTheLady]

@Staximus I wouldn’t be able to kick his ass he’s much stronger and bigger than me. My friends have said kick him in the jewels if he does anything but I don’t think that’d work.

[Staximus]

I said have a guy his ass

[AnneTheLady]

@Staximus lol srry I misread but I don’t think my guy friends can be there at my job 24/7 just in case. So would a kick work I still don’t want to do it but I guess it’s better than rape

[TropicThunder]

kick will definitely work if correctly executed

[TropicThunder]

kick knee grab and slaps are all great strikes to the groin

[alexR123]

Go for the eyes and balls they are the 2 most sensitive areas

eyes: fingers poking and gouging

balls: kicks, knees, grabs, slaps

[Jack10467]

@AnneTheLady I actually know quite a bit do you still need tips or no?

[TropicThunder]

aim for eyes and balls