We just spooned, no kiss?!

[Anonymous]

I have been flirting with this guy for a few weeks, and a few nights ago I went to his house and we just chatted, and eventually we fell asleep. He spooned me as we were in bed together but never tried to have sex with me or kiss me. Do you think this is strange as he was spooning me? Do you think he doesn't find me attractive becuse he didn't kiss me. Do men spoon women they don't like? I don't understand it does he not fancy me or think I'm hot?

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Guys - would it put you off a girl if she did with you?

[rachiee]

Think of it this way, would you invite a guy over to your house and hold him all night if you weren't interested/attracted to him? Chances are you wouldn't, even with a friend that would be too weird. I think that he is interested but he isn't the type to jump into sexual/physical things right away or he may just be doing it out of respect for you and taking it slow. There are guys out there who don't want just sex from a girl and it sounds like he's one of them.

[Anonymous]

Maybe he's a little shy and wanted to take things slow... don't jump to conclusions just yet. Observe how he acts around you next time you hang out and if there is no change then don't worry...maybe you should.make the first move

[hh444]

one of two things. He's probably just alittle intimidated by you and didn't know if you wanna go all the way. in which case, you should probably make the first move. or, he's gay and just needed confirmation. you could tell by seeing if he had a boner while he's in bed with you. and not to be mean but if a guys put off by you after sex, he probably doesn't like you and just wanted to f*** something.

[Asker]

i meant would you be put of a girl if she just spooned with you?, didn't write it properly up there

[sixstring]

He didn't want to rush things.